Maphunziro kugona ana

maphunziro kugonana ndi chiyani? Pa zaka zimene ayenera kuyamba kukambirana ndi ana pa "chinsinsi ndi manyazi" Mutu? Ndipo mmene ayenera kupita ku nkhani imeneyi?

Kwambiri kumaganiza kuti kugonana maphunziro a ana aang'ono - ndi bwino osankhidwa zidole ndi zovala. Ndiko kuti, anyamata Mulimonsemo angathe sudzaperekedwa kusewera zidole komanso chidole posudku ndi atsikana contraindicated makina, makina ndi nkhonya magolovesi. Ngakhale kuti, ndithudi, ndi wofunika kwambiri kwa mapangidwe a mbadwo mkuuka kumufunsa m'njira yoyenera.

Koma osadandaula ngati mwanayo wayamba kusewera posudku kapena kuyesa kusoka latsopano chovala chidole - ndi tailors bwino ndi akamaphika ndi amuna amene ankatengedwa kwa nthawi makedzana. Kotero palibe chifukwa choti mlandu mwana wake kapena kumuseka mu nkhani iyi.

Funso lina, ngati mnyamata, kusewera, kuyesera kudyetsa chidole cha "m'mawere." Apa mfundo imeneyi ayenera kale adziŵitsa akuluakulu. Kugonana maphunziro, zomwe ndithudi zimachokera kwambiri ndili mwana, makamaka nkhawa za mkati lathu la munthu kuti udindo wake wam'tsogolo m'banja: bambo kapena mayi. The mwana ali ndi zaka ziwiri amatha ndithu kuzindikira ndi bambo kapena mayi, kubwereza iwo mu masewera dongosolo awo khalidwe. Chabwino, ngati banja m'mlengalenga ulamuliro chokoma thandizo mwagwirizana ndi kumvetsa.

Ndi chomwe chiri cholakwika ngati mwana akukwera kuthandiza mayi anga kutsuka mbale - zambiri makolo zabwino lekani molimbika! Osauka china: bambo ake ziri odorgivaet pang'ono mwana: "Kodi inu kwenikweni mkazi, mu lakuya ndi chiguduli ndi kugwiritsa ntchito" kubwereza mawu kenako abambo, mwamuna wamkulu adzakhala kunyoza ntchito akazi, cipo kuthandiza mayi wake ndi mkazi, kukhala wankhanza ndi chorstvym . Ndipo ngati bambo ake anali kulondola, iye anamvetsera kwa mwana wake, anapereka mfundo kuposa munthu ayenera kuchita chiyani, ndipo - akazi. Komabe, maphunziro kugonana amachita zoipa kwa malingaliro mwanayo, osati phindu.

Koma ngakhale zovuta kuti bwino kuphunzitsa tsogolo la munthu akholo banja, kumene mozungulira okha akazi ena ali ndi pali chitsanzo palibe mwamuna weniweni wa. maphunziro kugonana Mabanja amenewa kwathunthu akutsamira pa mapewa akazi. Kumene, mfundo zikuluzikulu mu mabanja awa akuyesera kuti kuphunzitsa mwana wanu kudzera m'mabuku, mafilimu, masewero, timasewero kusewera masewera. Kenako amathandiza sukulu. Ndipo chabwino, ngati maphunziro mnyamata bungwe ana anakumana mphunzitsi wabwino - munthu amene angapereke iye chitsanzo cha mwamuna weniweni - Bambo wina!

Zofunika zachinthu china mu maphunziro kugonana akale mukukhulupirira maphunziro kugonana. Koma siziyenera kukhala m'malo maphunziro kugonana kugonana: woyamba ndi mbali wachiwiri. Ngakhale inu sangachoke iye pansi pa kudzichepetsa onyenga kapena zinkanamizira mphwayi, kuwauza nkhani chidwi mwana za momwe mwana anachokera.

Kumene, mopusa mwana zazing'ono mwatsatanetsatane kuti afotokoze mmene anthu kugonana ndi akazi, mmene kutenga mimba kumachitika ndi mfundo zonse zokhudza thupi. Koma pano pali yankho kwa mwana pa funso kuti zinadziwika N'kutheka.

Rebonochka m'mimba wake umabala azakhali. Iye ndi zovuta, ngakhale chowawa, koma ndi wokonda mwana wake watsogolo wokondwa kuvutika zonse izi. Ndipo amayi anu sizinali zophweka kubala inu, koma kwenikweni, kwenikweni ndakonda inu kale, ndipo amakonda mpaka tsopano! Pamene mwana mu mimba mayi amakula kukula anakhumba, mu chipatala anali kuchotsedwa, ndipo Aunt wakudya mkaka. Kawirikawiri mwana ndatopa izi. Baibulo ili liri moyo wa mwana, ngati mtsikana kapena mnyamata, mwaulemu, mwachikondi kwa mkazi mayi.

Kenako, nthawi zambiri kale ndi zaka 6 - 7, ana amayamba kudzifunsa funso lina: mmene ana kulowa m'mimba kuti mayi anga? Kawirikawiri pa m'badwo uno ana atayamba kale kupita ku sukulu. Motero sitiyenera kukhala funso lomaliza ndi maphunziro kugonana sukulu ayenera kuyamba osati mu 9 kalasi, koma kale kwambiri - kuyambira kalasi loyamba.

Mungathe kuitana kalasi ntchito zachipatala kapena zamaganizo akhoza kulankhula unachitikira padera anyamata ndi atsikana. Koma m'pofunika kwambiri kugwira magawo amenewa pa mlingo woyenera. Ngati sikukadatero, ana athu tiphunzira za kwambiri wofatsa ndiponso wosangalatsa mbali bwino moyo kuchokera ku magwero ake n'ngwokayikitsa kuti angathe kuwaphunzitsa zonsezi wauve, zonyansa, kusokonezedwa kuwala.