Mitundu nkhondo ndi njira zawo

Mikangano - mmodzi wa zinthu zosasangalatsa miyoyo yathu. Munthu aliyense bwino kapena mosadziwa kufunafuna kuzindikira, ulemu, kufunafuna ubwenzi wauzimu ndi chuma, ndi pamene panjira zofuna zathu adzawombana ndi zofuna za anthu ena, wavulala kwambiri. Osanenapo chakuti zosiyanasiyana mikangano ndi ndewu kusokoneza ubwenzi wabwino osati ndi munthu mwachindunji m'gulu zinthu, komanso ndi anthu ena dugimi, ophunzira unwitting ndi mboni kuti mkangano.

Zamaganizo kuphunzira njira kuthetsa kusamvana, anakakamizika kuswa iwo uko mu mitundu. Kuti zochitika chofunika njira yake.

Mu kuwerenga maganizo ano, mitundu zotsatirazi nkhondo chikhalidwe. Zoopsa, mwachitsanzo zowononga komanso ofuna kumanga maganizo - ubwino vuto lonse. Nawonso nkhondo mu iliyonse mwa amene uka: pakati pa anthu awiri, pakati pa mwamuna ndi gulu lonse. Mu gulu ili zamaganizo kuwonjezera intrapersonal maganizo nkhondo, amene auka kwa kusiyana zosowa ndi mphamvu, zilakolako ndi makhalidwe makhalidwe a munthu.

Mitundu nkhondo akhoza kugawidwa malingana chilengedwe zimene zidzachitika: ndale, ntchito, udindo (mwachitsanzo, pakati pa kholo ndi mwana, m'bale ndi mlongo, mwamuna ndi mkazi).

Kupanga malo mikangano angakhale osiyanasiyana. Motero gulu la mitundu ya mikangano mu bungwe: pakati wapamwamba wamng'ono pakati pa atumiki, pakati m'madipatimenti, magulu, ndi pakati pa antchito payekha ndi gulu lonse. Ambiri nkhondo akanatha kupewedwa ngati ufulu onse ndi maudindo akhala zalembedwa, ndi mafelemu ndi anagawira zochokera makhalidwe awo (kuti ntchito mu timu si anzanga pafupi ndi antchito umalimbana zotsatira zake). Ngati bungwe lanu ali ndi kusemphana wapadera, ayenera iwo "anayala" kudutsa m'madipatimenti ndi kuganizira mmene mungachepetsere zimakhudza awo pa gulu.

Pali ambiri classifications zina (malingana ndi vutoli, mmene). mitundu yonse nkhondo ali ndi utoto kumvetsa zinthu ndi kupeza njira yoyenera kwambiri pogamula mikangano. Mtundu uliwonse wa mkangano ali mphamvu yake, zimayambitsa matendawo ndi mogwirizana njira yake kusamvana. The maganizo ntchito yaikulu loyang'anizana ndi zotsutsana ndi anthu owazungulira - kubweretsa nkhondo m'njira zabwino. Choncho asiye chitukuko ndi kulongosola mphamvu afufuze mumafanana. Izi zikutanthauza kuti mikangano ingathetsedwe mwa kungololera kuchotsa chifukwa kusiyana ndi kumvetsa maganizo a munthu winayo.

Mwachitsanzo, mtundu uliwonse wa mkangano chilengedwe ntchito nthawi yafupika chifukwa chosamvetsa udindo wake kapena ufulu. Mikanganoyi azilankhula kudzera mafotokozedwe a mphamvu ndi udindo. Zimenezi zikugwira ntchito kwa atumiki onse ndi akuluakulu. Pewani nkhondo chilengedwe ntchito kuthandiza kufotokoza mafotokozedwe ntchito, kukhala malamulo ndodo pa mabonasi ndipo zilango ndi zikalata zina zimene kwenikweni ayenera amazindikira antchito onse.

Ngati panali kusamvana pakati pa munthu ndi lonse gulu ntchito - chikhalidwe chake ndi chosiyana ndi kuthetsa zikhale mosiyana. zifukwa kubisika mu mkangano wa malamulo a anthu kapena chikhalidwe lolamulira kugwira ntchito kwa timu (mwachitsanzo, kufuna kupeza "scapegoat"). Ndipo choyamba choncho wachiwiri m'pofunika ntchito pa timu (choyamba - chifukwa munthu amene si zolondola, lachiwiri - chifukwa munthu sangathe konse chikhumbo kuti amuchotsepo Iye anapachikidwa pa chizindikiro).

Mitundu ya nkhondo - chidwi kwambiri chigawo cha maganizo, amene amatipatsa nzeru kwambiri za mmene angalankhulire ndi anthu. Chidziwitso cha vutoli, mphamvu ya mkangano amakulolani kuona zinthu m'kati mwachikulu ganizilani zimene zikuchitika ndi kuchita mogwirizana ndi mmene zinthu zilili. Choncho kupewa mphindi zosasangalatsa, kaya iye yekha, ndi anthu owazungulira.