"Ndilibe wina," kapena za payekha wachinyamata

kusungulumwa adazindikira unyamata makamaka pachimake. Kukhwima munthu akuyamba kukhala wofunika kwambiri wa yekha ndi ena, zokhumba zake ndi zofunika zosiyanasiyana. Vuto: "Ine palibe" wayamba zopweteka kwambiri. Kodi kuthandiza mwana wanu kuthana ndi kusungulumwa? ndi mawu kupeza chiyani?

Ngati mwana wanu akunena, "Ine palibe," zikutanthauza kuti iye kapena iye, "ine ndikumverera zoipa." Yesetsani kukhala tcheru kuti adzapezekepo mwana pa nthawi imeneyi. Kulankhula naye kamodzi siliphunzitsa kuli kotheka, ndi kutchereza. Khalani odzipereka, kugawana maganizo anu ndi, kukumbukira mmene anakulira, zimene zinali zofunika kwambiri kwa inu pamenepo. Tsoka, nthawi zambiri wachinyamata ndi losadziwika mavuto awo, ndipo amasangalala kuvala. Komabe, pali chizindikiro. Anzeru kholo kapena mphunzitsi mudzazindikira iwo ndi kuyensa kuthandiza.

Choyamba m'gulu kupewa kutsutsa! Kumbukirani kuti ndemanga iliyonse zazindikirika ndi kudana chifukwa amawawidwira kale wosakhwima mwana moyo. Mu achinyamata ndi Kusakhazikika kwambiri kudzidalira, iye akuyang'ana iwo okha ndipo malo awo mu dziko lino. Choncho, ngati mawu akuti: "Ndilibe bwenzi," mukaziona kutsutsa ( "Si chifukwa sikokwanira .... anzeru, wabwino, wokongola, mtundu, yesani") ndi malemba ofanana - onetsetsani muli kukhudzana ndi mwana otayika muyaya. Musaganize kuti mayankho anu angamuthandize kukonza kumalephera kuti apeza bwino. Ichi ndi chimodzi mwa zazikulu makolo zolakwa. M'malo mwake, kutamanda mtsikana monga Nthawi zambiri zimamuthandiza kudalira luso lake ndi chikoka. Pofunafuna chivomerezo ndi kuzindikira ana kunadetsa kupita zenizeni pafupifupi, mu chiyanjano ndi iwo amene ali monga wosungulumwa komanso wosasangalala. Osati kutamandidwa ndi luntha banja ndi kusukulu, iwo anayamba kufufuza mu makampani osiyanasiyana, si nthawi zonse odalirika ndi mizimu yabwino.

Komanso, kumbukirani, komanso m'mene zina kaduka zolengedwa achinyamata kuyang'ana pa anzawo amene amaoneka kukhala ozindikira kwambiri, opambana, wokongola. Msungwanayu ndinaganiza, "Ine ndiribe zina" kawirikawiri kumagwirizana chitsanzo cha abwenzi amene akhala kumeneko anyamata. Ndi pa unyamata choncho tikufuna kukhala bwino kuposa ena, kukhala wokongola ndi chidwi. Palibe chifukwa chochitira manyazi - izi ndi ndondomeko yachibadwa wodzilamulira watero ndi mapangidwe abwino.

Nkofunika kuti wachinyamata kenako munthu mnzake weniweni, ngati iye angakhoze kuchita izo weniweni osati kuyesa kusintha. Kupeza chithandizo chilichonse kuchokera kwa anzawo, iwo amakonda kucheza ndi okalamba, akuluakulu. Komanso kumawonjezera mtundu wa "kutchuka" wachinyamata m'maso mwake ndi mu maganizo a m'kalasi. Ndi kofunika kwambiri kuti nthawi yocheza ndi ana awo pa mutu kulankhulana lotha. M'pofunika kuwaphunzitsa kumvetsa okha, kumvetsera mawu anu mumtima. Ndipo kusiyanitsa weniweni kwa mankhusu. Munthu ndi mnzake atsikana nthawi zambiri osati kwambiri munthu amene mungathe kugawana anu chinsinsi kwambiri, amene akhoza kudaliridwa, ndi munthu amene Ine ndikufuna ndikuonetsereni pa phwando amene angathe "kudzionetsera" kwa m'kalasi nsanje. Izinso, ndi gawo yachibadwa mapangidwe ndi chitukuko. Choncho musawafulumizitse mlandu wachinyamata kuti sanamvetse anthu. Yesetsani kumvetsa ndi kulenga nyengo ya chidaliro. Mwa njira imeneyi kungamuthandize kudutsa yovuta imeneyi.