Mimba - nthawi zofunika pa moyo wa mkazi aliyense amene si chimwemwe cha msonkhano wotsatira kuti ndi mwanayo, komanso zinthu zina zabwino. Choyamba, ndi zovuta thupi. Monga mmene mayi aliyense wapakati ayesa kusunga mayendedwe akale, iwo akuyembekezerabe kwambiri kusintha. ntchito zonse za thupi adzamangidwenso mu njira yatsopano pofuna zikhalidwe omasuka kwambiri awiri tsopano. Motero, chimodzi mwa nkhani kwambiri ovutitsa mayi amakhala funso kuti pamene umayi tchuthi.
Mpumulo kapena kusintha zinthu
akazi onse, pamene iwo kupita pa umayi tchuthi, amayembekezera bata ndi mtendere. Iwo amaganiza kuti akuluakulu sadzakhala ndi zonena zonse sadzakhala ndi kudzuka m'mawa kwambiri ndi kukhala kwa maola 8 mu malo omwewo. Pa dzanja limodzi, zonse, ndithudi, izo ndi zoona, koma, pa zina, mayi tsogolo akuyembekezera latsopano, n'kofunika ntchito kunyumba. M'pofunika mosamala kukonzekera nyumba ya maonekedwe a mwanayo izo, ikani zonse mosamala kwambiri, chifukwa chitetezo cha mu ana akhanda ali wofooka, zilibe kukhala dothi iliyonse. Muyenera kupeza zofunika nyenyeswa zinthu zonse, akonzekeretse chipinda iye. Muyenera kuganizira kusankha ndi chikuku chamwana, matiresi, mabulangete, mapilo, ndi mankhwala zinthu zoyambirira ana a nduna. Ambiri, nkhawa zokwanira. Choncho kopita kwa umayi tchuthi kuti kuchita chilichonse?
Nthawi kusiya
Onse mfundo watsiku ndi "umayi" kwenikweni kumaphatikizapo maholide ziwiri zosiyana. The oyamba - ndi umayi tchuthi, ndipo chachiwiri - pambuyo partum. Komabe, kusiyana uyu ali mwa mwambo wina. malipiro onse pa nthawi yomweyo, zikalata ndi kukonzedwa nthawi imodzi.
Malinga ndi malamulo ntchito mkazi akhoza kupita pa tchuthi umayi pamene nyengo mimba ndi masabata 30. Mogwirizana, kumene m'kaundula, muyenera kupeza chidutswa cha kulumala ndi satifiketi yake ya kulembetsa. Ndi zolemba izi, iye akanakhoza mosavuta kunja bwino waweruzidwa zina. Komabe, si koyenera kuchita izo. Pamene umayi kusiya, aliyense mayi woyembekezera ali ndi ufulu wosankha. Ngati akuona bwino ndipo ali ndi mtima wofuna kupitiriza ntchito, mukhoza kulemba mawu ina. Komanso, n'zotheka kupeza oyambirira umayi tchuthi, aligning ndi tchuthi malamulo pachaka. Motero, lamulo mukhoza kuyamba ndi masabata 25 a mimba (zimatengera okha kutalika maziko a tchuthi, omwe amaperekedwa ndi abwana ake).
wautali bwanji umayi
Pamene umayi kusiya, mkazi angasankhe okha, koma pa masiku angati - kumadalira osati pa izo. Ngati mimba singleton, amayendetsa bwino, popanda mavuto, ena angaone ngati mayiyo ali masiku 70. Pankhani ya mimba angapo , kapena pamene kupatuka aliyense mu ntchito yake tchuthi adzakhala masiku 84-86. Ngati mayi woyembekezera amakhala mu zoni cheza kapena poyera kuti poizoniyu kale, iye achoke akalandire chithandizo angakhale masiku 90.
Kutalika kwa umayi tchuthi anatsimikiza ndi patsogolo pobereka yokha. Ngati zonse anapita popanda mavuto, mkazi imatengedwa masiku 70 tchuthi, ngati kubadwa zinali zovuta ndi zotsatira zoipa - masiku 86. Pa kubadwa kwa tchuthi kuposa wina mwanayo masiku 110.
Pakutha pa zikondwerero zimenezi awiri mayi wosangalala akhoza kutenga kusiya kusamalira mwana, anapereka kwa zaka 3.