Timalemba ndemanga pa mutu wakuti "Mabwenzi anga"

Lembani nkhani yonena za "Abwenzi" ndi yosavuta kusiyana ndi kufufuza ntchito kapena kuyesa kunena zomwe simukuzidziwa. Anthu onse ali ndi abwenzi. Inde, sikuti aliyense ali ndi zabwino kwambiri, yemwe sangawonongeke ndikukhala moyo wawo wonse, koma ngakhale lingaliro lochepa la ubwenzi ndi munthu aliyense.

Choncho, mukakhala pansi pamapepala opanda kanthu, nthawi zambiri maganizo amatha kutuluka m'maganizo mwanu, ndikusiya funso lokhalo pa zomwe muyenera kulemba. Mukamayambitsa ndemanga pa "Amzanga", mungathe kuyankhula za chirichonse chokhudzana ndi abwenzi. Inu simukusowa mantha kuti muzilemba chirichonse momveka ndi moona.

Kodi ubwenzi ndi chiyani?

Choyamba muyenera kusankha pa mfundo. Kodi ubwenzi ndi chiyani? Mukuimira munthu wotani? Zimatanthauzanji kwa inu? Musanapite ku dikishonaleyi, dzifunseni nokha kuti ndemanga pa "Abwenzi anga" samawoneka ngati zolemba zazolembedwa m'bukuli. Maganizo aumwini ndiwo chinthu chofunikira kwambiri m'malemba onsewa.

Athandizeni pa nthawi yovuta ndikukondwera nanu. Nthawi zonse amakhala wokonzeka kukumverani, kupereka uphungu kapena kuchita zinthu zosasangalatsa, ngati mukuzifuna. Mumadalirana wina ndi mzake, kotero kuti mutha kudziwa chinsinsi, osakhala ndi mantha kuti mu maola angapo aliyense adzadziwa za izo. Muli ndi zofuna zomwe zimakupangitsani kuti muyandikire limodzi ndikupatseni mitu yowonjezera pamisonkhano. Inu mukudziwa malo onse ofooka a wina ndi mzake, koma moyenera musagwiritse ntchito iwo, mwina, osangouza wina za iwo.

Ganizirani zomwe zimapangitsa bwenzi lanu kukhala bwenzi. Ndi zophweka. Mukafika mu chisangalalo, zidzakondweretsani inu. Ndichifukwa chake malemba omwe ali pamutu wakuti "Mabwenzi anga" ndi osavuta kulemba. Poganizira za mabwenzi awo enieni, mawu abwino adzalowera pamutu, kugwirizanitsa malingaliro, malingaliro ndi kudzoza. Mungathenso kuwonjezera pang'ono za kusakhulupirika ndi pamene munthu akusiya kuyandikira, kuti akulimbikitsidwa, ndi zina zotero.

Kukhala ndi abwenzi m'moyo

Kodi muli ndi anzanu? Ndi angati? Kodi iwo ndi chiyani? Mukhoza kujambula zonse: kuchokera pozindikira mnzanu wapamtima musanayambe kukumana ndi zovuta zomwe zakuchitikirani. Makamaka nkhani zochititsa chidwi zokhudzana ndi moyo, pamene funsolo liri lolunjika. Ichi ndi ndemanga pa mutu wakuti "Bwenzi lenileni", osati za abwenzi onse. Kusiyanasiyana, ngakhale kochepa, komabe apo, chifukwa nthawi zambiri munthu wabwino kwambiri komanso weniweni akhoza kukhala ochepa chabe, komanso achibale ambiri. Ngati mulibe wina, mungathenso kutchula izi, komanso kutchula momwe mumayimira munthu yemwe angakhale bwenzi lanu m'tsogolomu.

Kusiyana pakati pa ubwenzi ndi mgwirizano

Sikuti kulongosola kolondola ndikofunikira monga maganizo anu pa nkhaniyi. Kodi ndi nthawi yotani yomwe munthu amasiya kukhala bwenzi chabe ndi kukhala bwenzi? Kodi izi zimachitika bwanji kwa inu? Chofunika ndi chakuti ntchito pa mutu wakuti "Mabwenzi anga" akhoza kutembenukira pang'ono ndikukhudza nkhani zokhudzana. Makamaka ngati ali ndi malingaliro.

Inde, bwenzi ndi munthu amene tingalankhule naye pamtima. Komabe, sitingathe kufotokoza zinsinsi zathu. Mzanga angathandize pa nthawi yovuta. Komabe, mu zovuta, zovuta zenizeni, makolo okha ndi bwenzi lapamtima adzawathandiza. Zitsanzo zingaperekedwe zambiri, ingoganizani ndi kulemba kusiyana.

Kutsiliza

Pomaliza, muyenera kulemba za momwe mumakhalira okondwa kuti mwakumana ndi anzanu enieni (ngati izi ziri zoona, ndithudi), ndi momwe mukuyembekezera ubwenzi wautali ndi wokhulupirika mpaka ukalamba. Kupanda kutero (ndiko kuti, ngati mulibe aliyense), mungathe kuyankhula ndi mawu okhumudwa omwe mukuyembekezera msonkhano woyambirira.

Mulimonsemo, musaope kufotokoza malingaliro anu, ndiyeno zolembedwa pamutu wapatsidwa zidzakhala zapamwamba kwambiri.