Chikondi ndi chikondi

Kawirikawiri munthu wakonda moyo wake wonse payekha. Ife kotero munamutcha sitingapeze kulingalira pamoyo wawo wonse abwenzi, banja ndi okondedwa. N'chifukwa chake mutu wa chikondi kwambiri chidwi pafupifupi munthu aliyense padziko lapansi lino. zovuta kuzimvetsa izo. Chikondi si kwa wina kumverera ichi, poyamba pa zonse, mtolo yaikulu mphamvu, nthawi zina ngakhale ndi "matenda" kuti zochokera maganizo ena a munthu wina ndi mzake. Timayesetsa mfundo yaikulu ya chikondi, ndi kukonda bwino.

Chikondi ndi chikondi. kusiyana

Choyamba, tiyenera kunena pasadakhale kuti chikondi ndi chikondi chenicheni ndi wosiyana kwambiri ndi mzake. Maganizo akonzedwa izi. Akatswiri ena amanena kuti chikondi - ichi ndi mlingo wachiwiri wa chikondi, ena kusiyanitsa mfundo izi kwambiri zinthu zina. Mulimonsemo, pafupi kwathunthu milandu, anthu oyamba nacho chikondi kwa okondedwa awo. Ndikumva wapadera, kuchititsa namondwe wa maganizo anthu, kupirira zomwe nthawi zina zovuta. Asayansi atsimikizira kuti munthu mu chikondi akuona chibaba yosalephera kulankhula ndi chinthu chikondi chake. Mu thupi lake pa chikondi chimayamba kutulutsa nambala yaikulu zinthu zenizeni. Iwo akutchedwa amphetamines. Iwo amatha kubweretsa munthu kumverera komweko akhoza pa nthawi ya umwana mowa kapena mankhwala osokoneza bongo. Izi kukhuta, chimwemwe, ndi ... kwambiri chidakwa. Tsiku lililonse kuchuluka kwa chakumwa zinthu mu thupi umakhala chikondi, iye salinso wokha popanda theka lachiwiri. Komanso chidwi ndi masomphenya ake ndimitambo. N'chifukwa chake tinganene kuti chikondi kuvala "sunali" sankadziwa makhalidwe oipa a wina ndi mzake. Koma nthawi zina, apo pakubwera nthawi imene thupi chabe sangathenso kutulutsa chakudya chokwanira cha amphetamines. Chikondi mipita. Man salinso akumverera chilakolako chachikulu kwa phunziro la maganizo ake posachedwapa, ankaoneka kutsegula maso ake. Nthawi zambiri, mfundo imeneyi amabwera mu zitatu - Patangotha miyezi isanu yatsoka zakukhosi wapadera ndi kufuna munthu wina. M'tsogolo, iwo kapena kupatukana kapena chikondi.

Chikondi ndi chikondi. mwendo yachiwiri

Ngati anthu kumvetsa kumene mu chikondi, munthu wabwino m'mawa, kuti pali kuposa kanthu wamba, ndipo kuyambira kudzifunsa zimene anazipeza ubale wawo wokondedwa zayimitsidwa. Anthu kusiya. Palibe chikondi chimene ali ndi N'zosachita kufunsa. Komabe, pali lina lomwe zochitika. Panthawi ina, anthu kuyamba kukangana, kuyeza kulemera kwake "ubwino" ndi "kuipa" mgwilizano poyerekeza ndi abwenzi okondedwa kale ndi mafani panopa, ndi kuzindikira kuti pafupi awo ndi wokondedwa bwino. Chikondi kwasanduka chikondi. Iye, nayenso Chili mbali yaing'ono ya chikondi, ulemu waukulu, chikondi, ndi zambiri. Anthu amene amakondana, musati basi ayenera mnzawo, iwo tikhale ndi ubale wapadera ndi Iye pa mlingo wachangu. Choncho, zoipa kumverera, akuitana pa nthawi yomweyo ndi zina zambiri. Chikondi lagawidwa nthawi zingapo. Gawo loyamba la anthu mumaikonda pochitika zaka zitatu. Ndi nyengo ya zaka zitatu kapena zinayi za ukwati ndi ubale mavuto amapezeka. Anthu amene akudutsa ndi adakali pamodzi, sangachitepo mzake zaka zoposa khumi.

Kodi chikondi ndi chikondi angapezeke, ngati inu kuwerenga mabuku akatswiri. Asayansi ambiri akuphunzira pano tsiku deta maganizo. Mu mabuku ambiri pa phunziro la "zamaganizo a chikondi ndi chikondi" wapatsidwa tanthauzo molondola ndiponso kuti ndi maganizo ena. Komabe, ziribe kanthu momwe mabuku ndi nkhani pa intaneti iwe sumawerenga, n'zovuta kumvetsa tanthauzo la mawu amenewa. Ndi bwino kuona mmene deta ndi Mwachitsanzo, ndi kumvetsa zimene chikondi chomwecho ndi chikondi ndi osiyana.