Kodi kukhala wabwino? Tiyenera tonse chikondi

Nyimbo "kukhala wabwino" kwayamba kutchuka kwambiri. Ndipo ngati tikhala otchuka kwambiri lingaliro - kusintha kwa bwino? Inde, anthu ayambe kukhala bwino, koma, kalanga, ambiri akufunafuna si mtima. Mwina chinthu chonsecho kumvetsa olakwika a liwu lakuti "mtima"? Chifukwa sikunali yapamwamba kukhala wokoma mtima?

Tanthauzo la suffix ndi

Anthu kusokoneza mfundo ziwiri: wabwino ndi Dobrenky. Pa nkhani yoyamba kenako, ndipo tsopano - kwa wachiwiri. Onyoza suffix akusonyeza kuti ubwino si weniweni. Achipembedzo, nawonso, kubwera mu njira zosiyanasiyana. Choyamba, ofooka anthu sikutanthauza amene Sangathe kapena kukana kulanga (inuyo mwaona aphunzitsi kusukulu amenewa). Kachiwiri, ndi anthu aulesi amene sangathe alangike kapolo, chifukwa iwo samasamala, n'kosavuta kumwetulira ndipo musati kuononga mutu. Kachitatu, ndi chinyengo anthu oipa amene amadzionetsera ngati anthu abwino phindu. Gulu lomaliza - kwambiri zosasangalatsa ndi woopsa.

mtima wolimba

Kukhala wabwino sanalenge ofooka. Only munthu wamphamvu angakwanitse chifundo, chikondi ndi chifundo chake. Ndicho, imasonyezera kupanga mtundu wa anthu. Ndipo pamene izo zifika kwa munthu wolimba, inu mukudziwa kukoma mtima si kwa chodzikonda osati chifukwa chosowa khalidwe. Khalani okoma mtima - choncho kukonzekera kupereka popanda kuyembekezera reciprocity. Anthu kwenikweni chabwino kulemekeza ndi chikondi. Kumbukirani fanizo la Melanie ku "wapita ndi Mphepo." Pakuti inconspicuous maonekedwe ndi mwachikondi anaima mosagwedera umunthu amphamvu, izo zinaonekera kwambiri pankhani makhalidwe abwino.

Yambani ndi nokha

Baibulo limati chikondi ena monga ife tokha. Yambani ndi chakuti umadzikondera wekha. Izi sizikutanthauza kuti mungathe "kusinthana kutali" kudziletsa ndi mowa kuchepetsa nokha. Izi zikutanthauza kuti muli ndi kugawana maganizo ndi ozindikira "Ine". Choncho anthu ambiri akunena kuti zikhale "mateche" kuti zotsatira zake. Ndipotu, ndikungofuna mayankho. zambiri kukhazikika maganizo oipa kwa iye chifukwa mukatero zovuta mokwanira. A chiŵerengero wa khoswe kuchititsa kuvulala kwambiri wandiweyani khungu. Tiyerekeze kuti muli ndi mnzake wapamtima amene amalakwitsa. Kotero, ili ndi mnzake wapamtima - inu. Kaya ndi zolakwika, muyenera ofunda ndi amapereka maganizo. Khalani bwino kwambiri ndi zovuta, koma ndi wochokera kwa zosowa kuyamba njira ya ubwino.

Ngati chikhulupiriro chimachita si chiopsyezo

Mukhoza thandizo la anthu amene mukufuna kukhala wabwino. Imeneyi, amanena okhulupirika a chipembedzo chimene iye alimo. Mu chipembedzo chilichonse mwambo wa chifundo ndi kukoma mtima mtengo, kupeza okhulupirira oona anzawo - ndi kuphunzira. Childs, wokhulupirira amachokera ku ubwino wa chisamaliro kwa iye ndi kumvetsa zimene zikuchitika mu moyo. Iwo ayenera kuphunzira kuchokera mwina kuwerenga ntchito zofunika Abambo Woyera, mwachitsanzo, "Philokalia" kapena "makwerero".

Ngakhale ngati simungathe talente Mwachibadwa mtima, kukhala wokoma ungaphunziridwe. Basi kuyesa kuona zabwino mwa ife tokha ndi ena - ndipo sangalalani. Zomwe zinayamba mu malingaliro athu, nthawi zonse zikuchitika mu chenicheni. Ndipo izo siziri "chinsinsi", koma choonadi otchulidwa m'Baibulo. Anthu zabwino moyo wosangalala.