Kodi muyenera chimwemwe

Mwina kamodzi Ine ndinkadabwa chimene munthu ayenera kukhala osangalala? A ndalama zambiri, ntchito yapamwamba, kuphunzira kwambiri ... ndi banja lina, ana, nyumba yaikulu ndi galu. Kapena matenda, mwamuna wodzisunga, mkazi wokhulupirika? Kapena mwina pang'ono zonse? Kapena basi kwambiri? Ndiyeno likukhalira kuti chilinganizo umodzi wa chimwemwe kulibe. Aliyense amaona mu izo chinachake awoawo, zilonda, kodi ulibe mu nthawi imeneyi.

Chimwemwe siza ndalama?

Nthabwala zoti chimwemwe ndi ndalama kapena mwa iwo, anatulukira kwambiri. Kumene, moyo wabwino ndi ndalama, koma osangalala kuposa inu? Kodi zitsanzo zosangalatsa lachilendo la anthu olemera zolakalaka zawo kwa zikuwonjezereka masiku ano, ngozi, analetsa ambiri. Ndipo onse kuyambira tanthauzo la satiety, pamene udachita (kapena tinatengera tinatengera) ndalama zokwanira akufunira iliyonse. Yesetsani kupita, kanthu kukwaniritsa - wosangalatsa. Komano, zinthu "malipiro kwa malipiro" pa moyo wopanda mitambo si kukoka. Choncho ndalama muyenera chimwemwe? Mwina komabe, kukhala yeniyeni kwambiri, kumverera kwa chimwemwe ndi ndalama ngati zogwirizana, ndiye zina. Ndipo pa nkhani ya mafilimu anajambula kwambiri ndi mabuku zalembedwa, ndi moyo weniweniwo zonse chitaya mpaka zitsanzo. Zinali ndiye kuti involuntarily mumaganiza ndi kunena za kumwamba ndi hema.

Chimwemwe - chikondi, banja, ana?

Mwina, zopanda izi ambiri mwa anthu. Ndipo palibe zodabwitsa, monga kufunika kupitiriza wa banja, kukhala munthu wa aliyense (kuwerenga: banja) ndi zofunika. Chabwino, pamafunika chikhalidwe wamkazi kuti anali mkazi ndi ana. Choncho, pamaso pawo mu moyo wanga wakhala kuti anthu osangalala? Ahn, ayi, si mophweka. Za kusakhulupirira, nkhanza, mikangano, zoipa, zokhumudwitsa, mavuto a banja ndipo sangalankhule. Koma palinso loners mwa chibadwa, ngakhale pa ziwerengero awo ndi peresenti palibe zoposa zitatu. Ndipo pali anthu amene mwadala sakufuna kukhala ndi ana - childfree. Koma dala kunena, kuti iwo - ndi wosasangalala? Ndithudi ayi! M'malo mwake, pamaso pa nthunzi ndi / kapena ana adzakhala amaona kuopseza kuli mitambo. Likukhalira, kenako limodzi Chinsinsi cha chimwemwe sapezeka.

Chinthu chachikulu - thanzi?

Kotero mwinamwake zimene tiyenera kukhala osangalala - ndi mtima? Ndipotu kunena chimodzimodzi: Zingakhale chachikulu china chirichonse. Koma nanga kukhala ndi anthu olumala? Ena mwa iwo ndi bwino akatswiri, amayi osangalala, makolo, ankakonda mkazi. Koma anthu achikulire amene ataya thanzi lawo, ndi zolemba pochitika m'gulu la ngozi? Koma izo siziri choncho! Pali iwo amene mu m'badwo waukulu osangalala ndi kufa ndi kumwetulira pa milomo yake.

Chimwemwe - ndi?

Monga likukhalira, aliyense wa "zikuluzikulu" moyo wopambana kwenikweni ali chirichonse chochita "koma". Pankhaniyi, muyenera kukhala osangalala? Kapena mwina kulibe konse? M'malo mwake, chimwemwe ndi mogwirizana. Pakati pa zilakolako zathu, luso mtima. nthawi imene mogwirizana uyu akubwera, ndipo anthu osangalala. Koma mwamsanga bwino atayika, ndipo anataya mphamvu ya chisangalalo. Ndi mutu wathu, anatulukira ndipo nthawizina anagwirizana maofesi, zilakolako, maloto. Kumva chimwemwe zingatilepheretse, mantha, nkhawa, giperotvetstvennost, kukhala ndi nthawi kulikonse. Nthawi angaletsedwe mwa okha-anazindikira kupalamula, pamene munthu akudziika "midadada". "Ine ndine wolakwa, kodi ndiri ndi ufulu kukhala osangalala ndiye? No! "- Subconsciously (ndipo nthawi zina chikumbumtima) tikuphunzirapo, ndipo salola tokha kumwetulira, kukonda, kukondedwa, osangalala. mtundu wa masochism kwawo.

Choncho chinthu choyamba inu muyenera kukhala osangalala - kuleka samoedstvom. Monga mmene chisoni ndi banal mmene zingamvekere, koma chimwemwe zili tokha. Ngati munthu amakonda wolephera - adzakhala monga chonchi, ziribe kanthu zomwe mwina ndi kuchita padziko, ziribe kanthu zomwe zinachitika m'moyo wake. Koma palibe chimene chingalepheretse komanso iwowo.

Kachiwiri, inu muyenera kudziyerekeza mungathe. Mwachitsanzo, ngati inu kutsimikizira nokha kuti tiyenera kukhala osangalala kumwa khofi m'mawa, osalephera, kwenikweni adzamva mtendere wamumtima, sipping chakumwa zotsitsimutsa kadzutsa. Koma onetsetsani kuti zimene ayenera kukhala osangalala - izo anabadwa mu banja la makolo olemera kapena Mwachitsanzo, kuti mwezi - ndiye kumva anthu wosasangalala adzakhala ndi kuzindikira n'zosatheka. Ndipo si za kuti chikhumbo ayenera kukhala pansi. M'malomwake, zokwanira ndi kuzikwaniritsa.

Pomaliza, munthu kwenikweni ndi mmisiri wa chimwemwe chake. Iwo uli, ndipo mfundo zimenezi si chipeneko. Komabe, zimene ayenera kukhala osangalala, aliyense imalongosola okha. Chofunika, kufunafuna si kuiwala kuti chimwemwe sayenera cholinga chachikulu (ie, zimene tikufunafuna), ndi ndondomeko ya (chinachake chimene chimachitika kwa ife).