Mwina n'zovuta kupeza nkhani imene mungafune kudziwa zambiri anthu kuposa chikondi. Za izo analemba mabuku, kuwombera mafilimu, kumkuza, ndipo kwambiri, zikuoneka kuti ife, ndi mu maonekedwe scabrous, ndi mapiko mngelo. No zochepa chidwi kuwerenga, ndi ziganizo zosiyanasiyana. Anzeru akhala analankhula za chikondi, ndi kutali, nkhani imeneyi sikuti kutuluka mafashoni. Moyo wathu wa umunthu. Ngakhale chikondi kawirikawiri poyerekeza, ndi imfa, kuti chikondi ndi champhamvu kwambiri, wamphamvu ndi kupha lamoto mivi.
Mawu anzeru amuna chikondi
Ndani amene anaika buzzwords wodzipereka kwa chodabwitsa chachikulu! Wolemba wotchuka existentialist Alber Kamyu, ankakhulupirira kuti chifuno cha moyo waumunthu - kugwa m'misampha, ziribe kanthu zomwe opanda chiyembekezo, koma anapangidwa zosiyana kwa chikondi. Anthu kawirikawiri kugwa mu kusimidwa, akhoza wolungama yekha ndi chimodzi - chachikulu, kukonda kwambiri moyo. Osachepera, kotero iye analemba France kwambiri. mawu anzeru za chikondi ndi yodziwika ndi Lvu Tolstomu. Wolemba kwambiri anaona kuti chikondi yokha mphatso chabe alibe mtengo. Komanso, za chikhalidwe chotero kuti kuupereka kwa wina, ife kusungitsa ndekha.
Ndi chiyani icho - chikondi?
Ndipo olemba mabuku ndi anzeru a m'mbuyomu akuyesera kupereka tanthauzo lenileni la zodabwitsazi, ngakhale akadali amalowetsa kwa zala zawo. Bwanji anthu kungololera gulu la wina ndi mnzake ndi sangakhale popanda cholinga cha zowawa zake? Mwina, malinga ndi Dostoevsky, amaona chikondi munthu wina momwe izo zimayenera kuchitika mu dongosolo la Mulungu? Koma nsanje wasiya yekha ena, kusonyeza kudzikonda imatengedwa Rochefoucauld. Jean-Zhak Russo anawonjezera kuti yekhayo amene amakonda kwambiri ndi moona, amatha kuiwala yekha. Izi chodabwitsa zodabwitsa chikondi Schiller anapereka kuposa malingaliro - chifukwa sangafikire malire ake ndipo sangathe kupeza mu pansi.
mawu anzeru za moyo
Za chikondi ambiri akunena. Koma, monga taonera pamwambapa, sikutheka kukambirana nkhani imeneyi popanda ziyenera kuli anthu. Ndipotu, chikondi zambiri tanthauzo la moyo wathu. Ndipo machesi ili mfundo zambiri. Mwanzeru chikondi ndi moyo Ndi zoziwika mogwirizana. Monga mmene zochitika ziwirizi? Apa ndi pamene ife tsopano ayamba kukhala miyoyo yathu, ndi mmene anamaliza. Sitingakhale popanda izo. Choncho, munthu uyu anzeru kugwadira chikondi. Koma anati munthu wakale, Confucius! Ndi zabwino kuti traditionalist Chinese mosayembekezeka inadza mawu amenewa. Anzeru kunena za chikondi lero. Tiyeni kumvera wolemba mabuku wotchuka Paolo Koelo: "Tiyenera kuzindikira chikondi pamoyo wathu. Ndi mwa ife, ndipo ife muyenera kutsegula izo. Kuti tichite zimenezi, tiyenera munthu wina. " Iye anabwereza woyambitsa wotchuka "The mbalameyi" Richard dzipulumutse. Tikafa, chinthu chokha chimene sadzatayikiridwa mtengo wake - izi ndi chinthu chimene inandisangalatsa. Kumva yilungamitsidwa kwambiri. Kodi tili mu malingaliro chikondi cha Mulungu, kapena anthu, kuti achibale kapena anzake, ana kapena ziweto. Tiyeni tikumbukire mawu a Paulo Woyera, osakonda ndife kanthu. ulemu wathu wonse, popanda kumverera izi sizitanthauza kanthu. Nzosadabwitsa chikondi chimene amadziwa zowawa, kukhululuka kuyembekezera - sichidukidwa, zilibe pamwamba pa ena, ndi ukoma zaa Chikiristu.