Mmene mungakhudzire munthu mu "VKontakte" kapena "Skype". Kodi munthu angakhudze bwanji munthu wopanda chovala?

Poyamba, malo ochezera a pa Intaneti adalengedwa kuti atsimikizire kuti anthu omwe ali kutali kwambiri amatha kuyankhulana momasuka, ndipo chofunika kwambiri, kulankhulana wina ndi mzake kwaulere, kusinthanitsa uthenga, malingaliro, ndi zina zotero. Poyamba, mlanduwu unali wochepa chabe ku makalata, ndiye panali mauthenga ndi mauthenga ndi maonekedwe, pogwira ntchito pa intaneti. Tsoka ilo, lero zipangizo zonsezi zimagwiritsidwa ntchito, kuziyika mofatsa, osati chifukwa cha cholinga. Dziweruzireni nokha: ndipo VKontakte, ndi Facebook, ndi Skype, komanso muzinthu zina zonse, achinyamata amakono amakambirana okhaokha, kuseketsa wina ndi mzake, komanso ngakhale kunyoza mwatsatanetsatane makhalidwe awo a interlocutor. Kuyankhulana kotereku ndi kuphwanya malamulo a pawebusaiti ndi chikhalidwe cha kuyanjana kwa intaneti, komwe kumawonetseredwa kawirikawiri mwa kunyoza ndi khalidwe lozunza, nthawi zambiri amatchedwa trolling. Ndipo posachedwapa chodabwitsa ichi chikukula mofulumira kwambiri.

Timadziŵa bwino lingaliro la achinyamata

Ndikoyenera kudziwa kuti kuthamanga kungakhale nako, ndikutanthauza, kugwirizana kwaubwenzi, ndiko kuti, anthu anu apamtima adabwera ndi mtundu wina wa Hochma kwa inu, kuti aliyense azisangalala ndi kuseketsa. M'nkhaniyi, tiwona mmene tingakhudzire munthu, zomwe timayenera kukambirana kuti tisakumane nazo. Ndicho chinthu chimodzi - abwenzi, ndi ena otero - kampani yophunzitsira. Pambuyo pake, zimakhalanso zosadziwika, ngati sizinali zachilendo, kuyesa kukusewera. Iwo amadziwa momwe angakhudzire munthu, chifukwa chiyani muyenera kumugwira, kuti musamuchititse manyazi, osati kumukhumudwitsa, koma kungokhala "wovuta" kusewera. Chabwino, tiyeni tipite patsogolo kuti tikambirane mwatsatanetsatane nkhaniyi.

Kodi aphunzitsi akumbukira chiyani?

Mu mtundu uwu wa "luso" ndikofunikira koyamba kusunga munthu pa ndowe. Pa phokoso lirilonse, nthawi yofunikira kwambiri ndi kuwonetsa kwa maganizo olakwika a interlocutor, amene, makamaka, amazunzidwa ndi malemba (komanso nthawi zina, ngakhale opanda nzeru). Akatswiri pa nkhaniyi omwe amadziwa momwe angakhudzire munthu amanena kuti chinthu chachikulu ndichokodola wotsutsa, popanda kumuchitira chipongwe kapena kumuchititsa manyazi. Koma malingaliro oterewa ndi ovuta, kulephera kunena chirichonse muyankhidwe, ndi zina zotero, galimotoyo imangokakamizidwa kuti iwonongeke. Ndiyeneranso kukumbukira kuti munthu ayenera kusungidwa nthawi zonse, ndikuwonjezerapo, ndikuwongolera, koma popanda kuthetsa vutoli. Kotero, tsopano tikupitirira ku zitsanzo zowonjezera zokhudzana ndi momwe tingakhudzire munthu: tidzasanthula zomwe wina anganene komanso zomwe sitingathe kuchita.

Maziko a masewera ena

Timayamba ndi zosavuta - ndi "imperceptible" mawu, omwe angathe kuponyedwa ngati osasamala, mwangozi. Amatha kukhudza maonekedwe a munthu, njira zake, zovala, kapangidwe kazokambirana. Ndipo ngati mukulemba mu intaneti, kuwerenga ndi kuwerenga ndikofunika kwambiri. Zoona, pali chikhalidwe chimodzi: kuseketsa zolakwitsa za munthu, musadzichepetse nokha! Nthawi zina ife timamvetsera kwa interlocutor wathu, timamuyang'ana, timatenga zonse momwe ziliri, ndipo sitingayang'ane mwatsatanetsatane. Koma ngati mutero Mukupanga, ndiko kuti, mumayamba kuwerenga mosamalitsa mawu onse kapena kumvetsera momwe maonekedwe ake amaonekera (kapena mwinamwake sakudziwa momwe angavalire mopanda manyazi), ndiye kuti padzakhala chifukwa choponyera. Mwachitsanzo, mumagwiriridwa ndi mtsikana yemwe amawoneka ngati Gothi: zovala zakuda, zozizwitsa zakuda, ndi zina zotero. Monga malamulo, maulamuliro amasonyeza kuti nsapato zimakhala mu sneakers kapena nsapato zosiyana kwambiri. Munthu wotereyo akhoza kutsimikiziridwa kuti ndi kovuta kusiyanitsa ndi mnyamata.

Mmene mungakhudzire munthu "mukulumikizana"

Malo ochezera a pawebusaitiyi ndiwomenya nkhondo ya aphunzitsi osiyana siyana omwe, omwe, pa anthu ofooka mu ntchitoyi, amapindula mokwanira, kapena amangochita mwachidule. Ngati mukufuna kuti "mugwirizane" ndi winawake, apa pali malingaliro othandizira kugwiritsa ntchito chithandizo chotchulidwa. Njira zowonongeka ndi munthu ndikutengera oyeramtima ake oyera mumtaneti, ndiko kuti, kutchulidwa kapena dzina lake. Tawonani, nchiani kwenikweni chimakupangitsani inu kudodometsedwa kwambiri, ndi Chitani. Njira yachiwiri ndikuthamangira kukambirana. Mungathe kulankhulana ndi munthu yemwe ali ndi pempho labwino, koma osati labwino kwambiri. Inde, aliyense angakane, koma poyankha ayankhe kuti: "Chabwino, ndimaganiza kuti simukufuna kupeza ndalama zokwanira." Kukambirana kudzapita ngati nthawi ya koloko, osakayikira. Chinthu chachikulu ndikudziwa kuti ndi munthu wotani amene ali patsogolo panu. Pitirizani kukambirana, nthawi zonse mufunse mafunso okhumudwitsa, onyoza wothandizana nawo, koma musamunyoze. Ambuye enieni akhoza kuika zinthu zonse motere, ngati kuti mdani mwiniyo "akugunda", ndipo adayankha mwakachetechete. Inde, ndipo potsirizira, nenani kuti makalata onse atumizidwa pa tsamba lotchuka la anthu ... Koilisi yatsopano imaperekedwa!

Momwe mungakhudzire munthu: kuyang'ana zofooka

Njira iyi ndi yovuta kwambiri, ndipo iwerengedwa kuti mudzatha kudziwa zolephera zenizeni za interlocutor wanu, amene amamuvutitsa kwenikweni. Izi zikhoza kukhala kusakhoza kulemba moyenera kapena mopitirira muyeso mawu achinyansa. Mwinamwake nsembe yanu idzapita kwa chirichonse chifukwa cha ndalama kapena kutchuka, ndi zina zotero. Mwachidziwikire, ife tikuyang'ana "Achilles zidendene" zoterozo ndipo timawapondereza mopanda chifundo. Mwachitsanzo, mukuyesera kunyoza munthu wonyenga yemwe, ngakhale m'zinthu zing'onozing'ono zomwe sizikuchitika nyengo, sasiya yankho lolunjika. Timamuuza kuti ndikovuta kukhala moyo (osanena zoona); Timafunsa yemwe akunena zoona komanso momwe akunama, koma timapempha mafunso onsewa mwachidule. Ngati wogwidwayo akuzindikira kuti mukumuphwanya, kanizani, ndipo pitirizani kuyankhula. Wobodza woteroyo akhoza kugwidwa ndi otentha. Kawirikawiri anthu omwe amachitira nsanje samakumbukira zonsezi ndi omwe amauza kale. Muyenera kutsata zochitikazo mwatcheru, ndipo panthawi yoyenera, muzimukumbutsa zina zomwe adanena kale.

Momwe mungakhudzire munthu mu Skype

Utumiki woterewu wa pa Intaneti monga Skype umatipatsa mwayi wambiri woti tiwone komanso kumumva munthuyo, ndipo kuchokera pa nkhaniyi, ndibwino kumunyansidwa. Pokonzekera kuyankhulana kwabwino, mutha kumvetsera mawu a mnzanuyo - mungamutsutse. Kawirikawiri m'zinenero , anthu amadumpha m'mawu amodzi, omwe amawabisa mwaluso, ngati amalankhulana kudzera m'mauthenga olembedwa. Njira yosavuta komanso yodziwika kwambiri yothamangira Skype ndi kufunsa mafunso opusa omwe angakhale ndi yankho losavuta. Zikupezeka kuti powayankha, wovutitsidwayo adziyika yekha movuta. Ngati tilingalira njira yosavuta, ndiye kuti munthu akhoza kugona ndi mawu osalankhula, omwe tanthauzo lake silikumveka kwa iye, ndi kuyamba kuseka pamene akudandaula.

Taboo pa galimoto iliyonse

Kuyambira kuchita (kapena kukondweretsa) mtundu uwu wa zojambula zoyenera, ndikofunikira kudziŵa momwe angakhudzire munthu wopanda chikwama, popanda kunyozedwa ndi zifukwa zomveka. Kupanda kutero, inu mumakhala ndi chiopsezo choti muzisamba, pambali pake, ngakhale anthu omwe ali ndi ndondomeko yochepa ya malingaliro amaganiza kuti iwo ali oleredwa, ndi kuletsa kulankhulana koteroko. Ndipo ndi ndani amene amapitiliza? Khalani aulemu, molimba mtima, mosamala musankhe mawu ndi kuyang'ana zomwe akukuuzani. Koma palibe chifukwa chokhalira osagwirizana ndi oyankhulana, nthawi zonse kuumirira pa mutu wanu, pa ziweruzo zanu. Komanso, musamupatse mutu woyambitsa mutu - mumusungeni mosakayikira, kumenyana ndi mafunso osayembekezeka ndi mawu.

Mawu ochepa pa nthawi

Pofuna kuti ukhale wokongola ndi wokondweretsa, ndipo choyamba kwa iwe, khala mlanduwo. Musamachitire mwano, musalumbire, musapfuule pa interlocutor. Zonse zomwe mukufunikira ndikupeza zofooka zake, werengani mantha, mupeze nkhani zomwe "akudwala". Pa mfundo izi ndikulimbikitsani kulankhula, fufuzani zambiri zomwe zimamukwiyitsa, koma palibe chomwe chimachititsa kuti azikwiya ndi kukwiya.