Munthu wamatsenga. Ndi oopsa motani?

Munthu wamatsenga ndi munthu amene amasonyeza khalidwe lachiwerewere ku makhalidwe abwino ndi chikhalidwe cha anthu. Lingaliro la "kudzikuza" linachokera ku dzina la sukulu yakale ya Chigiriki ya filosofi - kusokoneza, omwe oimira awo amalalikira m'malo molepheretsa malingaliro pa zikhalidwe ndi makhalidwe abwino ambiri omwe amavomereza. Pambuyo pake, amatsenga anayamba kuitana anthu omwe anakana kufunika kwa maganizo a anthu.

Kodi "munthu wamwano" amatanthauzanji?

M'nthawi yathu ino, munthu wamatsenga sizodabwitsa. Ngakhale kuti padziko lapansi mulibe chikondi chamtundu uliwonse, komanso palibe amatsenga. Mu mtima waumunthu, pali zinthu zambiri zosagwirizana: chifundo ndi ukali, kusatetezeka ndi kusudzulana, kudzichepetsa ndi kunyalanyaza, chikondi ndi chikondi. Zonsezi, zenizeni, zimakhala zogwirizana. Koma panthawi yomweyi, malo amodzi nthawi zonse amapita pamwamba. Tikamakwiya - chikhalidwe chathu chimabisala, pamene tikukondwera - zisoni zonse zimawoneka kwinakwake.

Uku ndiko kukongola kwa polarities, chifukwa kumverera kwina sikungakhalepo popanda ena ambiri. Kodi tingasangalale ngati sitidziwa chisoni, kodi tingadziwe kuti kulephera kuli bwanji, ngati sitikudziwa kupambana? Kodi tingadziwe kuti ndi chiyani ngati sitinachotse magalasi obiriwira?

Munthu wamatsenga ndi munthu yemwe "amazizira" mu imodzi mwa mitengo yoyipa. Kaŵirikaŵiri zimachitika kuti zokhumudwitsa mu moyo zinali zokwanira, ndipo kusungunuka kwa sludge zosasangalatsa mu moyo sikusangalatsanso. Mwa mawu osavuta, zimakhala zosavuta kuti munthu asayembekezere kalikonse, osati kukhumudwanso. Pambuyo pa chigoba chachisokonezo, nthawi zambiri zimakhala zoyembekezeka komanso zowawa.

Munthu wamatsenga. Ndi mtundu wanji iyeyo?

Monga lamulo, kugogomezera malingaliro amodzi a dziko lapansi kapena zochitika zina sizongopeka chabe ndikumenyana kopanda kuzindikira kwa munthu payekha ndi kutsutsana mwa iyemwini. Pamene munthu wamatsenga amadziwika ndi chipsinjo, ndiye kuti akuwongolera kwambiri zomwe akuganiza kuti ndi zabwino. Pali zotheka kwambiri kuti ziyembekezo izi zimabisika mwakuya kotero kuti anthu ena samazindikira nthawi yomweyo kukhalapo kwawo.

Zimatanthawuza kuti ngakhale, ngakhale kuwonetseratu pang'ono chabe kwotsutsana ndi chiwonetsero chafooka. Munthu sabadwanso wamatsenga, amabwera kumalingaliro otere pa moyo kwa nthawi inayake, wina akufulumira, ndipo wina wodekha. Chinthu china ndi chakuti anthu ena angathe kupulumuka mavuto ambiri, koma panthawi yomweyi, musataye mtima m'tsogolo mwachimwemwe, pamene ena, movutikira pang'ono, ayamba kunyoza ndi kudana nazo zonse zomwe zawabweretsa kulephera ndi kukhumudwa.

Kotero, kodi "munthu wamwano" amatanthauzanji? Tiyeni tiwerenge izo. Ndipotu, aliyense wa ife ali ndi vuto linalake. Pafupifupi anthu onse adakumana nawo moyo wawo wonse wolephera komanso kukhumudwa pazochita zawo kapena payekha. Ngati mwapeza mphamvu kuti musagwiritse ntchito zolakwika ndikusunthira - ndizoyenera kutamandidwa.

Zivomerezana, ndizopusa kukana kukhalapo kwa chikondi, ubwenzi kapena ntchito yabwino, ngati inuyo mwasokonezeka. Kusokonezeka ndi mphamvu yolepheretsa munthu kusunthira patsogolo pakufunafuna yekha ndi chimwemwe chake.