Kaya munthu lalikulu osangalala?

Pa kuopsa nkhawa lopitirira ndi ubwino kuseka kuti nkhani zambiri nkhani ndi mabuku olembedwa. Komabe, tikhala otsimikiza kuti bwino zitha kukhala munthu kwambiri. Aliyense amene amayenda mu suti tingachipeze powerenga, nthawi zonse aukhondo, kuvala magalasi, amapita ku galimoto zodula yachilendo, sachedwa osati kusewera wopusa. Koma kodi? ndi mavuto kuopsa kwapadera chiyani?

Choyamba amaonetsera zimene zikutanthauza ife ndi khalidwe limeneli. Akuluakulu munthu alibe kunyalanyaza chilichonse - zinthu kapena zofunika, kapena mfundo, kapena zinthu zazing'ono. Ali wotsimikiza kuti zonse mu moyo ndi tanthauzo, cholinga ndi phindu zina. Iye ankakhulupirira kuti zinthu zonse anali pansi pa ulamuliro, ndi ngozi zingachitike pokhapokha masoka achilengedwe. Sakonda kwa mphindi wapatali kwa kanthu. Time - ndalama. Akuluakulu munthu zokayikitsa kuti limafufuza, asaaonerera osati okha komanso anthu ena. Sanali pansi, chifukwa iye amakhulupirira kuti ayenera kukhala okonzeka nthawi zonse. Koma zimakhala mkulu mlingo wa nkhawa. Komabe, ngati munthu lalikulu osangalala? Ndi vuto kuti sakudziwa mmene kusiya ndi kusangalala bwino. Iye zambiri opondereza ndiponso chifukwa aliyense sunawakhutitse iye, chifukwa "tingachite bwino." Ayi, ndithudi, kwathunthu Kuchotsera kusamala kwa moyo zosatheka. Komabe, kutseka munthu kwambiri zambiri chilango. Chili mtima woipa, fatalism ndi matenda giperotvetstvennosti. Choncho, anthu sachedwa matenda osiyanasiyana, makamaka dongosolo mtima, ndi kapepala m'mimba.

Kodi kuthandiza anthu awa? Ayenera kuphunzira kuti asangalale ndi kupumula. Ndipo kuchita izo popanda mlandu, wopanda ulamuliro zonse zimenezi. Mitundu yonse ya angalimbikitsire ndi thandizo zokambirana maganizo kuphunzira mmene angakhalire moyo ndi chikhulupiriro kwambiri ndi chidaliro. A udindo wabwino kusewera ndi kuseka mankhwala. Kumene, lalikulu mnyamata aiming pa tsogolo kwambiri, amaona opusa nthawi yocheza kuonera comedies kapena zosangalatsa basi. Koma m'pofunika kumvetsa kuti simungathe kutenga udindo zonse kwa anthu ena, chifukwa zinthu zonse muyenera kuchita. Nthawi zina chabe nthawi kutengeka. A zambiri khama ndiponso mphamvu inatichotsera zimene kwenikweni sikudalira chifuniro chathu. A nthabwala nthawi zonse ndi wothandizira kwambiri kuposa udindo wapamwamba. Ngakhale kwambiri: ngati kufuna bwino chirichonse chimene chiri waukulu kwambiri, akhoza kupondereza zilakolako zonse kulenga, zanzi mphamvu.

Man, kuganizira zotsatira, iwalani za ndondomekoyi. Iye anyalanyaza zisangalalo yosavuta tsiku ndi tsiku ndiponso zosangalatsa. Choncho, kufika pamwamba pa phiri, ayenera iye sangathe kukhala osangalala ndi bwino lino. Pambuyo mphamvu zonse wakhala ntchito pa zolinga. owonongedwa angabwere pambuyo pake, zambiri zimachitika maganizo. Zina amatchedwa amatopa. Iwo ayenera nthawi zonse kudzikumbutsa kuti milandu onse kusintha, ndalama zonse sanali kupeza, koma moyo yekha. Ndipo kuphunzira mmene kukumana zosangalatsa.