Kodi muyenera kuchita chiyani ngati simukudziwa choti muchite? Kodi mungapange bwanji chisankho choyenera?

Zonse zisanakhalepo pa dziko lapansi ndipo simunayambe kufunsa funso lomwe mungachite ngati simukudziwa choti muchite. Kuwonekera kwa funsoli sikutanthawuza kuti ndikusowa chiyembekezo chotheka cha mkhalidwewo, kungakhale kusokonezeka chifukwa cha kutayika kwachinthu china muzochitika za zochitika kapena kungokhala osakhumba kuchita chirichonse. Pachifukwa chomaliza, mawuwa ndi oyenera: "Sindikudziwa choti ndichite!"

Ingoyenera kuti muchite chinachake

Pali mawu oti palibe chiyembekezo chilichonse. Komabe, kwa munthu amene ali m'mavuto, ichi ndi chitonthozo chochepa, chifukwa mu mphamvu ya padziko lonse, mawu oterewa akutanthawuza imfa ngati njira yothetsera mavuto. Ndizovuta kwambiri. Ngati tibwereranso kuzinthu zowonjezera za moyo, mu "mchitidwe wochita ngati simukudziwa choti muchite" munthu amene funsoli likuyambani, m'pofunika kuthandizira ndikugwirizana kuti mupeze njira yothetsera vutoli. Inde, pa nthawi zotere ndizofunikira kuti munthu wachikondi ali pafupi. Choyamba, iye sadzakondwera ndi zovuta zakugwa, zomwe ziri zabwino kale. Chachiwiri, monga akunena, mitu iwiri ndi yabwino. M'nthawi yathu ino mavuto ambiri amayamba chifukwa cha kusowa ndalama. Ndipo njira yokhayo kutulukira ndiyo kuyesa kuwapeza iwo. Mabungwe amatha kukhala ndi khalidwe lokha. Momwe mungachitire bwino njira yoyenera, munthu wapafupi angakuuzeni. Ndipotu, amadziŵa yekha za vutoli.

Nthawi ndi mchiritsi wabwino kwambiri

Mtundu woipa umapangitsa kuti "zomwe mungachite pamene simukudziwa choti muchite" ngati mukupita kukondedwa wanu. Pano, pangakhale malangizo amodzi okha - munthu ayenera kuyesetsa kuti apulumuke mwanjira ina. Apanso, si kwachabe kuti nzeru za anthu zimanena kuti nthawi ndi mchiritsi wabwino kwambiri. Pa izo, ndi nzeru, yomwe ili ndi mamiliyoni ambiri ofanana. Pa nthawi ya zovuta, izi sizitonthoze, komabe. Zimangokhala zokondwera ndi kupezeka kwa intaneti! Bwenzi pafupi nalo ndilobwino. Bwanji ngati akuvutika ndi lilime lachilankhulo? Pa intaneti pa nkhaniyi - ndakatulo, miyambi, malangizo, ndipo chofunikira kwambiri, mitundu yonse ya maphunziro. Folk nzeru imati muyenera kugona ndi tsoka, sikudzakhala kovuta m'mawa, koma padzakhala kumverera kuti moyo ukuchitika, ndipo muyenera kulimbana nawo. Pano pali maphunziro oyenerera, mothandizidwa ndi munthu yemwe posachedwa adzatha kumvetsa momwe angapangire chisankho choyenera.

Tiyenera kukumbukira kuti moyo ndi "mizere"

Kuti asokoneze munthu mu mphindi yovuta, kapena ngati zinthu zikuwoneka kuti palibe chiyembekezo, sizingatheke kuti mum'patse mphamvu, mothandizidwa ndi mankhwala oyenera. Pali, ndithudi, zochita zazikulu - vuto latsopano, ndiko kuti, monga akunena, mphete ndi mphete. Osati mtima uliwonse ukhoza kupirira izo.

Amapempha mfundo yomveka bwino, yomwe imatsatira, kachiwiri, kuchokera ku nzeru za anthu - idzasintha - padzakhala ufa. Izi ndizo funso la choti muchite, pamene simukudziwa choti muchite, pali yankho - muyenera kukhala ndi moyo mwanjira yina. Izi ndi zomwe nyimboyi ikukamba. Kodi mungachite chiyani muzochitikazi? Ndikofunika kuti mwinamwake mukhale pamodzi kapena kuyesera kuchita. Ndizochititsa manyazi, komabe m'pofunika, ponena za izi, kutsimikizira zoona ngati izi: "Muthandizidwa ndi zakudya zoyenera komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi m'masewera akunja". Komabe, izi ndi zoona. Lero chidutswa sichikwera mmero, mawa ndi chimodzimodzi, koma thupi lidzalitenga, ndipo ichi chidzakhala chiyambi choyamba kuchira. Ndipo pamene munthu "akuswa" mkhalidwewo, chimwemwe chake chidzakhala chachikulu, chowona mtima komanso chosayerekezeka. Mwinamwake, ndikumverera kwakukulu komwe sikukwanira kwa osaka adrenaline, omwe alibe malo osowa mtendere. Ngakhale kuti muli ndi chidziwitso chakuya chachisoni kapena chimwemwe chenicheni, palibe chodabwitsa chomwe chingathe kufanizitsa.

Si nthawi zonse chirichonse chowopsya

Mawu oti "Sindikudziwa ngakhale choti ndichite" akhoza kukhala ndi malingaliro achikondi ndikutanthauza kuti n'zosatheka kusankha kuchokera ku zifukwa zabwino kwambiri, komanso kuyamikira izi. Komabe, izi zimachitika kawirikawiri. Pali zochitika pamene munthu, monga wina kapena chinachake, sakudziwa chochita chifukwa cha kusowa kwa malamulo ochokera pamwamba. Pali malangizowo ambiri. Osati abwino kwambiri, koma oyenerera kuzinthu zina, ndizowonetsera kuti panthawiyi ndibwino kuti musachite chilichonse. Ndipo ndi bwino kupumula, kuganizira za dziko lamkati (kusinkhasinkha) ndipo, ngati n'kotheka, ugone. Ndipo izi ndizopindulitsa zabwino zonse. Kusinkhasinkha, monga kukambirana ndi Mulungu, sikupezeka kwa aliyense.

Pali zochitika pamene simukufuna kuchita chirichonse. Ngati mawonekedwe a kusafuna uku akuvuta, ndiye amatchedwa kuvutika maganizo. Munthu amasiyapo chidwi pa chirichonse, kudzidalira kwake sikungoganizidwe - ndipo ndiye nthawi yoti anthu omwe amamuzungulira akuti: "Sindikudziwa choti ndichite!" Kuti ndifunse dokotala.

Njira yothetsera vutoli nthawi zonse imakhala yaumwini

Pali zowonjezereka zomwe mungachite ngati simukudziwa choti muchite. Amakulangizani kuti muzikumba, muyambe kuyenda, mutengepo patsogolo, ngakhale mutenge mndandanda kapena mupite kukagula. Khoti lirilonse liri lokha ndipo limatanthawuza za konkire.

Ziri zosavuta kwa wokhulupirira kuti asonkhanitse malingaliro ake mu zovuta. Choyamba, ankakonda kudalira Mulungu ndikukhulupirira kuti adzamuthandiza. Chikhulupiriro ichi palokha chimakhala gawo lodziwika la chitsimikizo cha njira yothetsera vutoli. Chachiwiri, munthu wokhulupirira kwambiri nthawizonse amakhala ndi interlocutor, kapena kuti munthu yemwe angathe kuyankha mafunso. Mafunso okha ndi mayankho awo omwe kwa iwo ndizochita malingaliro, ndiko, kufufuza njira yothetsera mkhalidwe umene wabwera. Kuyankhulana ndi Mulungu ndiko kulimbikitsana ndi kupumula kwapanikizika. Zochita izi ndizothandiza kwa anthu okha ndikukhulupirira moona mtima. Iwo amatetezedwa nthawizonse. Ndipo ngati munthu sakhulupirira kuti kulibe Mulungu kapena chikhulupiriro chimapita mofanana ndi moyo weniweni?

Yamaliza osatha

Ngati zinthu sizili pamtunda wa moyo ndi imfa, ndiye kuti njira yothetsera vutoli, yomwe imapezeka nthawi zambiri, ndi yokwanira. Palibe njira yabwino, kuphatikizapo, momwe mungakhalire pansi ndikukhazikika pansi, konzani malingaliro anu. Anthu ndi osiyana, koma ambiri apeza zinthu zambiri zomwe angafune, koma zochitika zosiyanasiyana zinalepheretsa, ndipo mwinamwake zokondweretsazo sizinali zokwanira. Ndiyo nthawi yosonkhanitsa makonzedwe.

Ndipo tsopano zonse zasintha - cholinga chachikulu cha moyo, mphamvu ya moyo wake yatha kwa kanthawi. Ndi nthawi yoti zinthu ziwonetsedwe ku "kenako". Mukhoza kuyika zinthu mu dongosolo, mukhoza kuwonanso mafilimu akale, kuwerenga buku lomwe linalibe nthawi yokwanira. Mukhoza kuchoka ndikuwona malo okondedwa kwambiri. Kapena, potsiriza, ingokhala pansi pa kompyuta, ndi kuwerenga ndi kuwerenga pa intaneti, ndi kuwona, ndi kuwona, ndipo ngakhale kubweretsa zina mwa dongosolo. Kachiwiri, zonsezi n'zotheka pa nthawi imene munthu ali wodzaza, wathanzi komanso moyo suwopsyeza chilichonse. Muzinthu zina zonse, cholinga ndicho - tiyenera kuyesetsa kupeza njira yopulumukira.