Mwai polankhulana

Mpheto akulumikizana kumachitika nthawi zonse, ndipo ngakhale kumatanthauza zoipa chibadidwe njira iyi, si nthawi zonse zoyipa. M'nkhaniyi tiona zitsanzo zambiri ankaikira mpheto mu mgwirizano pakati pa achibale, ubale mwana kholo komanso kulankhulana ndi malonda.

Mpheto akutchedwa yaikulu naye kulankhulana Pofuna kukwaniritsa kufunika kwa iye. Ndi zotsatira izi kwenikweni obisika pamene munthu wina akulankhula za, kufuna kwambiri. Mwai polankhulana nthawi zonse ntchito osati antchito mlingo uliwonse wa malonda phindu. Bwino kapena ayi, aliyense alembe ka mawu wina kusunga wokondedwa / kuzitcha izo mlandu / mphamvu kugwirizana ndi mnzanu. Mwina mungaganize kuti masewera pamwamba ulemu wanu, ndi kuti, monga munthu waluntha, musataye kuti zidule izi? Kumbukirani, ngati mukumva / ntchito mawu amenewa: "Only mukundimvetsa", "Inu sakonda ine!" "Ngati inu kupita, ine ...." Nkhokwe ndi zopanda malire. Koma nthawi zambiri amayendela mu mgonero mwina oopsa ndi kuulondola mipherezero ang'onoang'ono. Palibe kadzakuipsani banal "Palibe akupanga tiyi zokoma!".

Mwai akulumikizana akhoza anatambasula nthawi. Pakuti okhazikika posungira tcheru kuphatikana chinthu ntchito ndi zikumbutso za anakumana nazo, ndi mphatso za mtengo wapatali, ndi kusuntha udindo ndi mavuto makhalidwe onse ...

Makolo ndi ana

Mutu wa mpheto mu unansi wa kholo ndi mwana sangakhale ngati apakhungu, koma ife tonse akugwidwa mukadzakula ena "katundu" kuyambira ali mwana, ndipo nthawi zambiri kugwiritsa ntchito njira zomwe ndaphunzira mu banja panobe. Mpheto vuto lililonse pamene cholinga chawo - kudyetsa kumusambitsa nthawi madzulo popanda choyalutsa. Komabe, pali anthu ena "taboo" makolo amene akufuna kukula chikhulupiriro ndi ozungulira dziko anthu. mpheto iyi ya mmene chikondi, kuopa, kulakwa ndi odzikayikira ( "Ngati simuchita pamene ine ndikunena, ndidzakupatsa ndi azakhali chachilendo").

kuntchito

Mwai mu kulankhulana bizinesi komanso zili ponseponse ndipo zochokera nkhokwe chomwecho. Iwo ntchito mphamvu ya kunyada, zachabechabe wa munthu; ingagwiritsidwe ntchito ndi njira yapadera. Mwachitsanzo, ngati saisama-, kuti ndi wonyalanyaza dala. Msampha umenewu umalimbana kulenga nkhawa, njakata yokha. Thiabendazole angagwiritsidwe ntchito zolinga ndi njira polenga zolinga zabwino kugwira ntchito zawo ndi munthu wina.

Kodi kuthana

Ngati mukuganiza kuti amayendela, ndipo sukufuna kupitiriza kupereka, pali a ayamikira monga kukana. Koposa zonse, kukhulupirira achibadwidwe wanu ndi zinachitikira. Ngati mukuona kuti mnzanuyo si moona ndithu, osalephera, muli chifukwa. Mwina amapereka nkhope, kusintha kamvekedwe. Ndipo ngati inu mukhoza kulingalira kuti pali yachiwiri pansi pa sutukesi ndi, ganizirani zimene onse. Mbali yofunika kwambiri ya mpheto akulumikizana - cholinga chobisika. Ngati ndi kale poyera kwa inu, inu mungakhoze basi usokoneze inu masewera chonyansa, kupanga bwino kuti munthu amene anaganiza zolinga zake. Mu nkhani ya pafupi ndi wokondedwa zingakhale zopweteka kwambiri ndipo zinadzala ndi chotupa ubale. Mukhozanso ntchito aulule choonadi pa zofuna zawo, koma amafunanso kuti mutu ozizira komanso kukhala manipulator pang'ono.

Zamaganizo kuti mpheto ndi chida kulankhulana, koma chifukwa cha eni okha "zabwino" kapena "zoipa." Nkofunika, bwanji kuti moyo wanu ndi mmene mukhoza kulimbana nawo. zina zambiri amapezeka pa zokambirana zapadera, maphunziro, pamene luso ndi kuchita kuti adziteteze ku mpheto. Amene ukuyamba kumene kuphunzira za nkhaniyi lalikulu, kungakhale bwino kuti timudziwe bwino ntchito ya Eric Berne, amene adzaitana pa mpheto za "masewera". Kodi njira psychotherapeutic vutoli. Mwa anthu amene amadalira njira chikhalidwe choyamba - olemba m'dera AP Egides umene opambana bwino pa mpheto ndi njira kutsutsa iwo.