Nthawi zambiri mu zoyankhulana anthu otchuka kulengeza kuti khalidwe lake monga mosalakwitsa. Iwo amalankhula za izo monga kuyenera wosatsutsika, koma ngati izi n'zoona? Today tidzayesetsa kuthetsa amene ali angwiro. Ndipo likupita wotero bwino?
Choyamba, tiyeni tione tanthauzo la mawu. Tsegulani tsamba limene ndimafuna ndi kuwerenga dikishonare: mosalakwitsa - munthu amene anachita kuwonetsetsa kuti zonse anali wangwiro. Koma anthu awa ogwira ntchito n'kofunika, popanda amene ntchito simungakhoze kuchita mu bungwe lirilonse? Tiyeni Sankhani amene ali angwiro. Ndipo ndi zoona kuti anthu ali ndi kanthu kochita mu malonda? Ngati muyang'ana bwino amene mosalakwitsa, ndiye nthawi yomweyo kukhala amalakwitsa akalipo. Chifukwa cha chilakolako chake chachibadwa ungwiro kotero wantchito akhoza umasinthasintha kuvula kuchita zinthu ndi nthawi yambiri awo kuphunzira chiphunzitsochi kuti konse angayerekeze ntchito mchitidwe. Nzosadabwitsa pamene wolembedwa ntchito yakulipidwa ofuna zambiri kupereka mayeso mu maganizo, zomwe cholinga chake ndi kudziwa otchedwa "Wabwino zovuta".
Zikuoneka kuti anthu samazindikira kuti dziko si wangwiro ndipo sitingathe kuphunzira chilichonse nthawi yoyamba. N'chifukwa chiyani muyenera wantchito amene ndi wamphamvu adzakhala kukonza ndi kupititsa patsogolo mfundo yabwino Mwachitsanzo, kuyankhula kwa makasitomala, ngati chimake cha mfundo zake, iye nthaŵi zonse kugwira pa Lolemba lotsatira. Komano, yesetsani ungwiro akadali zofunika, kotero muyenera kuphunzira kukonda ngakhale kuwina zazing'ono. Ndiyeno inu alibe vuto ndi kudzidalira!
Tsopano inu asanaganize amene ali mosalakwitsa, ine ndikuyembekeza inu anazindikira kuti khalidwe limeneli si chitsimikizo cha kupambana, ngakhale si zachilendo ambiri Nobel laureates. chinsinsi chawo n'chiyani? Muyenera kukhala mogwirizana ndi palokha. Kumene, anaika kwathunthu kuti tikwaniritse zolinga zawo - ziri kwenikweni chachikulu, koma musadandaule chifukwa Pepala pang'ono. Choncho, tiyenera kuyesetsa tokha osati mfundo poponya mkulu kumvera! Pa kufunafuna njira yabwino zingatenge nthawi yambiri, choncho usakhale bwino kuchita tsopano?
Monga ananenera zamaganizo, "Wophunzira syndrome" amachokera ku ubwana. Makolo ambiri Umafuna kwambiri kwa ana awo: ndi ziwerengero kwambiri za mbiri mu masewera, etc. M'kupita kwa nthawi, mwana amayamba kuona kuti akhamulambira zotsatira zake ndi kupambana. Palibe zodabwitsa mu choona kuti iye anakulira, iye amafuna kukhala zabwino zonse. Munthu wotero kwambiri amamva kuwawa kulephera, chifukwa iye ndi mantha kuti makolo ndi asiye yowazungulira kuti amamukonda.
Kodi ndikufunika kulakwitsa kuyesa kusintha? Ngati palibe nkhondo ndi anthu, mphamvu ya alowererepo maganizo kumeneko. Pa nthawi imeneyi, munthu n'zosavuta kuthana ndi zonse ndekha. ochepa okha kuphunzira kuti asangalale ndi zolinga zotheka ndiponso kusangalala ndi moyo. Kumbukirani kuti aliyense ali ndi ufulu kulakwitsa!