Ndi zolinga zimene: njira kulimbikitsa ena kapena kwa iye?

Kodi zolinga? Losavuta komanso ndi lolondola kwambiri tanthauzo la mfundo akhazikitsidwa mu mabuku monga "chingatilimbikitse kuchitapo kanthu." Mwachitsanzo, ngati wantchito amafuna kupita konse upambana dongosolo kuti mwezi uno, kuwonjezeka kwambiri malipiro ake, mu nkhani iyi tikhoza kunena kuti ndi "kulimbikitsa". Ndipo tiwaphunzitse kuchita anabwera ndi utsogoleri wake ndi zinachititsa peresenti Kusankhidwa kwa iwowo.

zofuna za udindo

Mofananamo, angachititse munthu aliyense, kumanga pa zosowa zofunika kwa izo. Koma tiyenera kudziwa chimene iwo anali. Aliyense wogwira ntchito ndi malipiro zofunika, munthu adzakhala ndi bwino kugwira ntchito zawo, ngati zonse matamando. Ndipo onse chifukwa cha kuzindikira za ena, makamaka ndi munthu ofunika kwambiri monga mtsogoleri, chofunika kwambiri pa nthawi imeneyi. Komabe, zofuna anthu asintha katundu, ndipo si nthawi zonse mawu okoma ku adiresi ya munthu adzakupatsani zotsatira chomwecho. Atangomva cholinga (cholinga) watha ntchito, nthawi abwana kusintha machenjerero awo.

N'chimodzimodzinso ndi makolo ofuna kusintha wounikira mwana, ndi angapo amene mukufuna kupeza thandizo kwa wina ndi mnzake, komanso anzake abwenzi, anzake, ndiponso achibale ena. M'pomveka chifukwa funso, kodi kulimbikitsa onse.

Kuganizira - ndi mphamvu kuti amalola kuti kusamalira anthu. Ndi kupeza chimene adzatsogolera mu kuchitapo - ndi wosavuta. ochepa okha kuwayang'anira mosamala munthuyo, kumvetsera ndi kukumbukira. Mu mabizinezi ikuluikulu, zitheke, ngakhale kuiperekeza kuyankhulana ndi mayesero maganizo, pambuyo Atadziwa zofuna zenizeni za ogwira ntchito amapanga dongosolo la chilimbikitso ntchito.

liwulo makhalidwe

Lingaliro la chilimbikitso mu mawonekedwe kukodzedwa limapangidwa zinthu zonse tatchulazi. Timatha inu kuswa chodabwitsa maganizo a muyezo zotsatirazi:

• emotive boma;
• amafuna kupezeka, chifukwa chimene kusintha mkhalidwe lake (mwachitsanzo, kwa chabe kuti yogwira);
• kufunika kwa nthawi okhudzidwa (mwinamwake anayambitsa kutengeka sanali kukhala mu ntchito zimene anachita).

Zinthu izi zokhudzana (zinthu), ndipo ayamba kumvetsa zimene ndi chilimbikitso.

Self-chilimbikitso

Ndinakumana amathanso zichokera munthuyo. Ndiye ife tikulankhula za kudziletsa chilimbikitso. Ndi chifukwa zodabwitsazi ife ntchito, ngakhale pamene kwathunthu sindikufuna kuti: tiyenera yekha kusintha maganizo vutoli. Mwachitsanzo, anthu ambiri akufuna kusiya kusuta fodya, koma palibe mfundo zamphamvu kuwalimbikitsa chizolowezi choipachi. Iwo amene analibe kusamalira kuponya, wotchedwa zolinga munthu, amene angakhoze kokha zodabwitsa. Mwachitsanzo, atsikana kusiya kusuta kokha pamene iwo kuzindikira kuti munthu amene kotheka kuti akonze banja, amakonda madona ndi makhalidwe palibe zoipa ...

Wofuna ntchito

Kwambiri kuphunzira lero ndi zolinga ntchito, kudziwa ongolankhula m'dera limeneli ndi kofunikira kuti kuchita zimenezi. Kale, pali maganizo osiyanasiyana pa nkhani chilimbikitso, imene anayamba malangizo enieni a zimakhudza antchito kuti kuonjezera zokolola ndi phindu.

Mu mbali iyi kudziwa motif kawirikawiri kusokonezedwa ndi kuwalimbikitsa ndi. Social ubwino, maudindo, ndalama, chilango kuphwanya chilango - izi ziri basi nzothandiza, koma ngati adzakula mu zolinga - sakudziwika. Ndipo komabe, aliyense kampani ayenera anayamba osati dongosolo la chilimbikitso kwa ogwira ntchito (malinga ndi chiphunzitso chilichonse), komanso kuwalimbikitsa dongosolo kukhalabe mlingo woyenera wa moyo antchito.

Nthawi zina zimakhala zovuta kumvetsa zimene zolinga anapatsidwa zosiyanasiyana ndi kuvuta chodabwitsa lapansi. Koma m'pofunika kwambiri kuti abwere ndi mawu wamba kuti zikusiyana ndi wozindikira asawononge cholinga chachikulu - kudziwa mmene kulimbikitsa ...