Self-ndife Akristu ndi zigawo zake

Kudzidalira wa munthu amatha kuona mphamvu awo ndi mwayi kuchitira nokha otsutsa. Ndi maziko a ntchito kuchita zimene munthu amakhulupirira yekha angathe. Tony ndi mbali yofunika ya kasamalidwe ka zochita khalidwe. Iwo zimakhudza ubwenzi wathu ndi chilengedwe ndi anthu, milingo chuma ndi moyo wosangalala. Onani kuti mfundo imeneyi ndi chofunikira kumvetsetsa, chifukwa ife zambiri kuyiwala za izo ndi tiyeni zimaonetsa ena, kudziwa zoipa kapena zabwino ndife, chabwino kapena choipa, etc. Monga ulamuliro, masewero si munthu zabwino kwambiri, chifukwa iwo kuchotsedwa phindu yachangu, koma tikukayikira kuuzira ndi kukhala maofesi.

Koma dziwani kuti objectivism zonse zofunika. Motero, munthu kudzidalira zimakhala bwino ndipo kuchepa. Malinga chikhalidwe chake munthu aumbike mwa mwina weniweni kapena mtima wolakwika kwa nokha ndi zochita zanu. Kumene, woyamba mtundu wa maganizo ndi khalidwe la munthu wamkulu, munthu unachitikira. The mwana akufotokozera, simungathe bwino kupenda yekha, chifukwa mu maganizo ake ali wamkulu mumaganiza kukopa anthu, kufuna kukhala munthu monga, ndi zina zotero. Iye sangakhoze mokwanira amaonetsera zimene zabwino ndi zoipa, chifukwa dongosolo lake la makhalidwe amaona.

Kudzidalira ndi mlingo wa chiyembekezo cha munthu ayenera kuyesetsa chizindikiro zabwino, osachepera, kuti analimbikitsa ndi zamaganizo. Munthu ayenera kulemekeza ena, ndi chifukwa kuti wayamba kulemekeza ndekha. Chifukwa ife tikufuna kunena za ife ndi wabwino, ife kena ntchito imeneyi, timayesetsa kupeza bwino. Kumene, pamene mmodzi wa achinyamata a kwasanduka mwana abwera patsogolo zawo kudzidalira, osati wa anthu owazungulira. Umunthu, wodzisunga ziyenera a mphamvu zawo, kumabweretsa yokha zingapo zofunika ndipo likuyesetsa kuti awo kukhazikitsa.

Onani kuti njira wodzilamulira adzadziwire kumatengera zifukwa zambiri, pakati ndipo amatchedwa:

1. Mayendedwe anthu mmadera. Pa munthu amene anabadwa mu banja lachifumu, kudzidalira adzakhala apamwamba kuposa namwino amene sali pa sukulu ya zachipatala.

2. mchitidwe malingaliro. Ngati munthu nthawi zonse kuti iye - nkhumba, iye zahryukaet posachedwa. Chinthu suyenera saganizira.

3. moyo ndi nkhani ina. Kudzidalira munthu amachepetsa, ngati munthu limodzi ndi ena masoka.

4. Ubwenzi yekha. Ngati nkhani yekha "mavuto", amamva bwino kwambiri.

5. Kukhulupirira nokha ndi bwino anu. Pamene tikhulupirira kuti tingachite kwambiri, ndipo ife zochuluka. Ndi lamulo.

Onani kuti osauka munthu, ngati zofunika chifukwa sizili zofanana, kuti iye yekha zimapangitsa aziloŵerera mu maphunziro a kunja mapeto kulephera. Komanso mwayi kuchita zosemphana ndi maganizo a ena zimadalira mtendere wa munthu. Ngati Tony khalidwe ndi anthu ozungulira diverges pa nthawi yaitali, nthawi zambiri akufotokozera zambiri zokhudza nkhondo pachimake kuti kungayambitse mavuto.

Komabe, kumbukirani kuti muyenera kukhala zabwino kudzidalira. Ndithudi, palibe amene akulankhula za kuponya ndi kuzindikira mokwanira za nkhaniyi ndipo amachita maloto opanda pake. Mukakhala ndi maganizo olakwika ikutuluka poyerekezera nokha, m'malo izo ndi zabwino. Musamenyane ndi zoipa, monga kuthetsa izo. Pagalasi, zindikirani zabwino osati zoipa maonekedwe awo. Munthu aliyense ali kwambiri makhalidwe zabwino ndi zoipa. Abwino, kotero musaike pamtanda. Mukamaphunzira kuwona bwino, m'pamenenso nadzakhala mwa inu.