Umbombo - ndi chiyani ichi? Izi ndi lofanana ndi zitsanzo. Kudzidalira ndi kudzikonda chikondi

Anthu kuona zimene zikuchitika ndi kufunsa chifukwa chake: "? Kudzikonda - ichi ndi chiyani". Internet ndi atolankhani n'zotheka kuti Buku lina, ngakhale kwa anthu amene zoona, palibe palokha sikukutanthauza. Koma kungakhale kulakwa mlandu m'badwo wathu mmodzi yekha, chifukwa daffodils nthawizonse zakhala ziri.

Nkhani Narcissus monga oyamba kofunika

Kuyankha funso wodzilamulira chikondi - ndi kuti n'zosatheka popanda kutchulidwa kwa Narcissus - wokongola mnyamata, koma yankhanza. Narcissus anakonda wina koma Iye yekha, ndipo kamodzi pa mulungu wa chikondi Aphrodite anatenga kubwezera iye pa chimene iye nymphs kuwawa ndi kukanidwa mphatso. Palibe amene ayenera masewera ndi Aphrodite, koma Narcisse anali narcissistic ndi opusa. Ndipo kunatero.

Narcissus ankaganiza kuti iye sanali kukonda muyenera Chikondi iye yekha basi. A nymph, ngakhale zolengedwa yopeka, koma chikhalidwe cha akadali awo aakazi. Ndipo atsikana alibe kulekerera zimenezi. Choncho, kamodzinso Narcissus anakana nymph, ankafuna kuti kubwereza tsoka lake, kuti ali m'chikondi ndi munthu, koma sanalabadire. Nymphs mukufuna akwaniritsidwa, chifukwa mnyamata ankafuna kuti ngakhale Aphrodite yekha.

Pa kusakasaka ndi, Narcissa anagwidwa ndi ludzu, ndipo iye anapita ku mtsinje kumwa, ndi khwawa anali choyera kuti onse anasonyeza kuti pa kalilole. Pamene mnyamata agwada pansi, iye anaona madzi icho chiri, na ciyezezo - mu chikondi ndi iye ku imfa m'lingaliro lenileni la mawu. Iye sanamwe, sanadye, iye anayang'ana pa yekha zonse ndi kuzilala.

Chinthu chodabwitsa kwambiri nkhani imeneyi kuti ku manda iye anakumba kunja nymph kuti anakana poyamba, malingana linayamba, - Echo. Ndi atsikana ena, nayenso, maliro kwa iye, ngakhale nkhanza za achinyamata a mtima. Mwambo akuti anthu otchuka undoubted akazi, pa dzanja limodzi, ndi nkhanza zake, mbali inayi. Pambuyo anapha Narcissa komanso atsikana, ngakhale iye mu imfa yake anatenga gawo mwachindunji.

Tsopano tikudziwa gwero la nkhaniyi, ndi losavuta kumvetsa, kudzikonda chikondi - ndi chiyani ichi?

Kudzikonda. Mau ofanana

Mu gawo luso nkhani tiyeneranso mwachindunji ofanana. Ndipo ife kuchita izi sizinali kukhuta. Choncho, mndandanda:

• Buku lina.
• Buku lina.
• Kugwiritsa chabe.
• Egocentrism.
• Yakan kapena yatchestvo (awiri pang'ono zosamveka, koma mawu ntchito).
• Buku lina (maganizo akuti ayamba kutchuka).

Izi ndi kudzikonda. Lofanana akhoza kutenga chilichonse pa mndandanda, koma kumbukirani nkhani yonse. Komanso, kudzikonda chikondi ndi Buku lina, ndi Buku lina zofanana mtengo koma wodzikonda - ndi mfundo zambiri ambiri. Wodzikonda sindiye kubwera anasangalala kwambiri munthu wake, koma nthawi zambiri kuposa inde. Iye akudziika pamwamba ena. Yakan yatchestvo kungakhale oyenera zolingalira stylistic - matanthauzo awa kwambiri akhakula. Chitani mfundoyo.

Kudzidalira ndi kudzikonda chikondi

Pofuna kudziwa tanthauzo substantive la mawu akuti "odzikonda" ndi "kudzidalira", tiyenera kukumbukira za kudzikonda ndi wodzikonda. Egoist - munthu amene ali ndi zosowa za ena, koma ndithu mwadala flouts iwo, monga amaona iwo moperewera. The wodzikonda si zosowa za ena. Egoist ndi choncho, koma n'komwe zoti anthu ena angakhale ndi chidwi, ndikuti, ntchito. Narcissus ndithu akukhulupirira ndi mtima wonse kuti iye ndiye - kwambiri chotchedwa chidwi, kuti mu dziko, zokonda zake, wachita.

Anecdote za Yevtushenko chitsanzo cha malire a Kudzikonda

Mu Soviet Union, anali chidwi kwambiri anecdote za Yevtushenko. Pali, iye ndi bwenzi lake. Yevtushenko yaitali ndiponso yosasangalatsa nkhani za iyeyo ndi kupambana kwake, zolephera, kusauka kwa maganizo. Ndiye monologue mwadzidzidzi linasokonekera, ndipo iye anati: "Ndine Kodi Ine zonse zokhudza inuyo ndi zaumwini? Tiyeni tikambirane mungakonde inu bukhu langa latsopano? ".

Izo mwangwiro akulongosola mtundu narcissistic wa munthu. Kumene, ena sangawamvetsetse kuti pali kudzikonda. Zitsanzo zikhoza kukhala m'tsogolo osatha, choncho musadandaule.

Freud ndi K.-H. Jung

The anatulukira chodabwitsa Buku lina, Freud komanso anachimwa Buku lina. Amadziwika kuti ankaona kutanthauzira lake la chiphunzitso psychoanalytic woona yekha, ndipo ngakhale kuti anali ophunzira, koma iwo anali zonse kumutukwana chifukwa chiphunzitso kupotozedwa. Ndipo nsanje ikuyaka K.-G. Jung, pakuti iye anali, osati Freud, anatsegula mapangidwe gulu la psyche anthu. K.-H. Jung sanakhale ngongole ndipo amasirira Freud, kuti - upainiya wa psychoanalysis monga njira kudziwa atakomoka.

Optionally samolyubtsev kumenya kungakhale wopandamalire. Koma tiyeni kunena chinthu chimodzi chokha inu kupita mu concretization ndi maganizo "kudzidalira": anthu ambiri sachedwa kugwa m'chikondi ndi okha kuposa akazi.

Tsopano ndi nthawi kuti muyankhe funso ili: "Kodi ndi kusiyana kwa zachabechabe wodzilamulira chikondi".

Kudzikonda amapezeka pa

Owerenga tcheru muona: ngakhale kufanana kwa woomba kudzidalira ndi kudzikonda chikondi, woyamba si lofanana wachiwiri, ndi zifukwa zomveka. Awa awiri mfundo chosiyana n'kofunika.

Ngati ife kulingalira chitukuko cha maganizo a munthu mwa iye yekha mu mawonekedwe a gawo, ndiye kumapeto zidzakhala mbali imodzi - kudziona effacement, ndipo mbali inayo - kudziona chikondi. Kugwiritsa manyazi yekha - izi ndi monga aakulu ngati wakuyiwala mu chikondi ndi iye. Ndipo, mudziŵiretu chikondi ndi chikondi - komanso ndi zochitika zosiyanasiyana. Ngati munthu ali ndi chikondi ndi yokha, si zabwino kwambiri, koma chikondi cha kudzikonda ndi kumverera yachibadwa kuti Payenera kukhala aliyense osachepera cholinga cha zitetezeke. Chifukwa phunziro amene amadana okha, m'malo kudzipha.

Man, kuvekedwa ndi kudzidalira, ndichiyani? Mwamuna kapena mkazi ndi kudziona ulemu sadzalola okha kuti mukunyoza mulimonse. Pa nthawi yomweyo iwo sangakhale mlendo khalidwe athandize nzika zawo, mwachitsanzo kwa munthu kudzidalira, pali anthu padziko ndi maganizo awo, zokonda ndi zofuna, ndipo ngakhale amatha kupanga nsembe kwa iwo. Chinthu china chimene munthu wonyada amadziwa malo ake mu dziko ndi moyo, ndipo mwinamwake iye akufuna apamwamba, koma Ndithu, sizitheka mwadala kupita kuchepa bulaketi ake.

Komabe, kupewa kuganiza kuti ife kuimba matamando a kudzidalira Mwachitsanzo: kudzidalira mwina pokhala kudzikonda chikondi, ndiyeno munthuyo kwasanduka Narcissus a. Motero aliyense pangozi. zisudzo Narcissistic kwambiri, musakhale achisoni, chifukwa izi si ena akupha, kuwonjezera, ngati masautso si anasamutsidwa mitundu ya pathological, ozungulira zambiri kukhululukira chizolowezi daffodils awo. Pamene enawo, ife tikuyembekeza, owerenga amadziwa kuti kudziletsa chikondi - izo si vuto, koma osati zabwino. Muyenera wekha ndi anthu ena amasirira munthu chifukwa cha ntchito zake ndi kukhala ndi moyo weniweni, chimodzimodzi nokha kuimba nyimbo zotamanda - mawonekedwe oipa.