Kudzidalira Kodi

Zotsatira za maphunziro ambiri mu kuwerenga maganizo kulola amanena mawu otsatirawa: chifukwa cha zolakwa mu chiweruzo chiri kwambiri azidzidalira wa anthu. Chotero quality, oddly mokwanira, kusokoneza kukwaniritsa cholinga. Koma ankakhulupirira kuti munthu wodzidalira akhoza kukwaniritsa kwambiri, chifukwa kwathunthu lolunjika pa cholinga chanu, osati kuzindikira zolakwa zawo. Nkofunika kuti tisasokoneze azidzidalira ndi azidzidalira chibadidwe anthu ambiri - kuti ndi vuto lalikulu. Anthu amenewa sakuzindikira zolakwa zawo, iwo amaona kuti maganizo awo yekha zolondola pothandiza anthu, akhoza mikangano ndi kusamvana. Mu zochitika zosiyanasiyana, nthawi zonse muyenera kuchita zinthu m'njira yopindulitsa, ndi zinthu monga kudzidalira, kumalepheretsa kukhalapo. Akamaziwononga khalidweli angakhale kuphatikiza, koma ndi bwino pansi pakati, osati mtundu uwu kwambiri.

Kwambiri wodzidalira anthu sangathe kuona zolakwa zawo komanso Choncho, kukonza iwo, iwo sadzakhala kutenga zododometsa ndi zolephera monga momwe kumene.

Kumene, munthu Kukubweretsera masautso ndi kusadzidalira. Pankhaniyi, ine ndikutsimikiza pali machitidwe amene ali ovuta kwambiri kuti amuchotsepo. Ndipotu, kudzidalira - ndi kumwetsa azidzidalira. Makamaka zimaononga zingayambitse mu mphindi pankhani mukukambirana ndalama. Momwemonso wodzidalira ndalama akhoza kutenga zochita wodzikweza zimene zimakhudza zinthu zawo, ndi mphamvu pa msika wonse.

Yankho kwa anthu awa kupeza zimayambitsa mpweya kudzidalira ndi kuyesa kuthetsa iwo. Only mu nkhani iyi kudzakhala kotheka kumvetsa zimene muyenera kusintha mmoyo wanu. Nthawi zina kudzidalira ungatilepheretse kuyan'ana mkhalidwe wawo thupi. Kukhulupirira kuti apamwamba kuposa ena anthu munthu overestimates luso kuwunika thanzi lawo, chifukwa mavuto zotheka aakulu.

Choncho, amaika azidzidalira kumabweretsa underestimation cha ngozi - anthu oterowo amakhulupirira kuti angathe kukhala pa chiopsezo chinachake kudwala kwambiri, monga khansa kapena kudzimbidwa. Koma m'pofunika kwambiri kumvetsa ndi kudziwa mmene zonse za kufunika kwa nthawi nthawi iliyonse yaikulu. Ngati kudziwa mavuto kugwirizana ndi makhalidwe oipa monga kusuta fodya ndi kumwa mowa, ndipo kudya, liwiro kudzakhala kotheka kuti ndisiye. Pamene munthu anazindikira kuti iye ali pamwamba pa onse, iye sanali mu ngozi, kuti nthawi iliyonse zikuoneka kuti ena kulakwitsa zimene zotsatira zoipa kwambiri.

Kudzidalira amachititsa munthu kudziona medicate, kutenga kugwira ntchito dokotala. Kusamvetsera aliyense kwa zizindikiro zosiyanasiyana kuti akhale harbingers cha kudwala, inu mukhoza kudzipweteka, chifukwa nthawi pofuna thandizo kwa katswiri, mukhoza kuchiza matenda mwamsanga.

Muyenera zimaoneka pa nokha, ngati akufunikira, kumvetsera mbali ya maganizo. Ndiyeno, mwina, adzapeza ena pansi pakati.