Mphamvu ya tsoka - izo ... Mfundo za m'tsogolo ndiponso tsogolo

M'mbuyomu, panopa, tsogolo ... nthawi ndi chiyani? Kaya munthu ndi membala zonse izi "kanthu", kapena kodi ife monga chete "atumiki" Ufumu Ake Tsogolo? Ndi kosatheka kupereka yankho lolozeka. Ena amakhulupirira kuti nthawi - ndi kayendedwe sizingasinthe, kunachitika njira imodzi yokha - akale kudzera nthawi m'tsogolo, ndipo anthu amalephera kusankha momwe yopita pa mtsinje ... Ena amakhulupirira kuti tsogolo - ndi pepala losalembedwapo, ndi wathu zilakolako, maganizo zochita - izi ndi mitundu ndi mithunzi mwa kusakaniza zomwe ife kulenga chithunzi cha moyo. Komabe, palinso zosiyana view - chikhulupiriro wakhungu tsogolo, kuti zonse zochitika pa ife kale odzozedwa munthu sakhala ndi ufulu wosankha. Kodi zikutanthauza tsoka ...

Kusapeŵeka kwa tsoka

Kamodzi pa mfumu wa Roma Domitian (51-96 gg. BC. E.) Ndipo nyenyezi wotchuka Askletarion nkhani za kusapeŵeka kwa tsoka. Mfumu anafunsa chimene nyenyezi amanena zokhudza mphindi yotsiriza ya moyo wa mneneri. Yankho lidali zosayembekezereka - imfa yake posachedwapa, ndipo thupi lake adzakhala kuswa paketi agalu. Domitian anaseka, ndipo analamula kupha Sitefano wambwebwe lapansi. Usiku womwewo, pa chakudya, mfumu kumusangalatsa modzitama anzake a azigwiritsa ntchito nzeru zake ndi kulimba mtima chifukwa anatha kuonera tsoka kwambiri, ndipo zoyembekezeka kusintha. onse amene analipo, anathandiza wolamulira si galasi za vinyo, kupatula munthu - Kuyesezera wosewera Latina. Iye anali wachisoni ndi chete. Iwo anasolola chidwi cha Domitian ndipo anafunsa chimene chinachitika, chifukwa iye sanali nawo mosangalala ambiri? Kumene wosewera ananena kuti basi lero Iye anadutsa m'dera limene inu bwinobwino kuwotcha zigawenga, ndipo anaona mtembo anabweretsa ndi wambwebwe lapansi. Moto analephera azinyadira. Nthawi zonse kuzimitsidwa ndi gusts amphamvu a mphepo. Ndipo patapita kanthawi comedian anaona paketi agalu olusa zong'amba mtembo wa Askletarion osauka ...

Nanga moyo wathu - tsoka kapena ufulu?

Ndipo ngati inu mungalingalire moyo wa munthu limodzi monga ngati ulendo, kunena, pa sitima mfundo kufika B? Apa galimotolo wakhala pafupi ndi windo, pomwepo sipping tiyi ndi ndimu, ndi kusesa uliwonse tsopano ndiyeno, mitundu motsatizana - nkhalango, mtsinje, mlatho, anabzala minda, midzi ... Iye sangakhoze kuona pasadakhale kopanda ubwenzi mtengo kapena mwala waukulu mbali mwa msewu. Iye zindikirani iwo okha mu mphindi yochepa pamene iwo anamupeza. Komabe, izi sizikutanthauza kuti mtengo ndi mwala kulibe mpaka tsopano. Iwo anali nthawi zonse. Choncho, kodi n'ciani cicitika kwa ife mu zochitika za m'tsogolo sitinabadwe ndi musati kupanga chifukwa cha chinachake kapena chinachake, kapena kani, iwo amapezeka pa zifukwa zina. A causal ubwenzi alipo, koma Mulimonsemo kale 'chili "ngati yomweyi anaika njanji zitsulo, kotero koyenera kuti kayendedwe ka sitima, ndipo mokonzekera ulendo ulendo, ndipo ayenera kukumana pamodzi ndi mitunda njira ... Mu mawu ena, inu simungakhoze kukhudza kapena kusintha chochitika mtsogolo, ndipo sangathe tikambirane kanthu akale. Iwo mwapadera zogwirizana, koma tsiku la kubadwa zinalembedwa mu script a moyo. Choncho, ndalama ndi lingaliro la tsoka yokha. Ndi tsoka, kukonzedweratu, onse ndi "kuphatikiza" - mwayi kumabweretsa zabwino zonse ndi chimwemwe, ndipo m'njira zoipa - thanthwe okutidwa ndi dumbo, ndi kuchenjerera.

Mu zamatsenga kuganizira pulayimale katundu zoterozo tsoka ngati kukwanira, kulondola ndi ulemu pa nkhani ndi akuluakulu. Ufufuze zinthu zimenezi ndi zovuta, mwinanso zosatheka. Choncho, katundu yaikulu ya tsoka, tingayerekezere irreversibility ndi zosasinthika.

Ndipo kodi ufulu?

Ufulu m'njira yakuti iye amadziwa anthu ake - mwayi kuti adziwe kusankha zikhomo moyo wawo, sali kanthu koma zongoganizira, ndipo cholakwa chachikulu ndi woopsa kwambiri. Ndi tanthauzo bwino za ntchito dongosolo kwa otaya mosalekeza kwa nthawi - chachiwiri, miniti, ora, usana ndi usiku, tsiku, ndi zina zotero - anthu inagundika ngati masewera. Chithunzi limodzi unagawika zigawo, ndipo ife tili ngati ana, nudule zidutswa zonse za chithunzi pamodzi. Koyamba, n'zosangalatsa, chidwi komanso zimathandiza kuti muyende mu dziko zakuthupi. Komano, munthu anamugwira dzanja, ndipo iye mosadziŵa amakhala akapolo a "masewero" ichi chotchedwa. Iye amavutika polekanitsa ndi m'mbuyomu, kukayikira kukuletsani gululi, ndipo pali kulimbikira kuopa m'tsogolo. Ndipo kodi tikubvomereza kuti tokha kuti palibe mantha, Koma zambiri tingathe anapereka latsopano, wamphamvu khomo ndi maloko zikwi, ndipo palibe ming'alu pulasitala padziko nkhawa zosiyanasiyana ndi mantha, m'malo mzake, komabe kupeza loophole ndi amakwawa. Chifukwa chiyani? Ngati ife udindo, onse padziko kulemedwa, kuyeza, anamva, ndipo pamapeto anapereka zinthu zonse tanthauzo, zikutanthauza kuti timatha weruzani ichi chachikulu "chuma." Ndipo tsopano ife tiri apa, ndithudi, mabodza awononge msampha. Chathu malingaliro ali ngakhale kudziwa, ngakhale mzimu, kapena mphamvu 'kuima pa helm ", ndipo pa nthawi yomweyo iye sangakhoze n'kutembenuka kunyalanyaza," wolamulira malo ", ndipo imperceptible m'manja mwa tsoka. Kodi ufulu umenewu?

Kodi poyamba kuzindikira kupanda ungwiro wake, achabechabe, izo, koma osati ngati sangathe, koma chodabwitsa ndi ulemu wathu wosachoka. Zimene zinachitika? Mwina, ndiye, kukhalabe pa chifundo cha tsoka - sali woti akhale tizivutika mumamva za kukhala, dotoro ndi mawu "tsoka" kapena kusiya ufulu ndi kukhala zimene amatchedwa kapolo tsoka, kutanthauza kukhala ndi moyo wodabwitsa popanda kuwaonerera zakale, kuti zinachitikira, olakwika, maganizo a ena, wopanda silifooketsa anthu ofuna kuopa m'tsogolo. Kodi n'chiyani chimene chiyenera kukhala - ndipo adzakhala chidzakhala chiyani. Amachititsa sitepe iliyonse, koma osati ndi mantha, koma ndi chikondi, ndiyeno mwinamwake, mphamvu ya tsoka - Ichitu, yosalephera, koma yemweyo "mchira mphepo" imene mukufuna oyendetsa onse pamaso pa ulendo wautali.