Zimakhudza maganizo a sukulu iti?

Kodi maganizo? Sanatchule zamankhwala. Choyamba, ndi mwayi kumanga ubale wolimba ndi anthu ena ndi kuti kudzidalira ndi munthu kukhuta. Kodi maziko? Majini akonzedwa kapena chitukuko pa magawo ena. Chibadwa, ndithudi, sichinayambe zimafika. Koma pafupifupi aliyense ndi chitukuko ubwana bwino angathe kukula mu umunthu zogwirizana, ndi wabwino maganizo.

Ndingatani kusankha muyezo imene kudziwa mlingo wa mogwirizana kapena mwana? Inde. Pali makhalidwe, amene pamodzi amatha kupereka ziyenera wonse wa psyche lapansi. Nawa akuluakulu:

• kutha kumvetsa wekha;
• amaonera wokha ngati munthu zabwino;
• luso ndi kusamalira;
• kulankhulana maganizo momasuka ndi anzawo;
• luso chisoni ndi chisoni anthu ena;
• luso kuumba mfundo zawo ndi mapulani.

Koma mmene kuyeza thanzi maganizo? Kodi pali linalake limene kuyesetsa? Inde. Munthu angathe osati atengere chilengedwe, koma amatha kudziletsa chitukuko ndi kuthetsa vutolo ake, tinganene kuti ponseponse kuti tipeze chikhalidwe ndi maganizo thanzi la munthu. More ndendende kunena izi: ndi munthu, mphamvu kusintha yokha ndi kusintha malo awo kwa mayiko awo.

Pankhani ya chitukuko ya zamaganizo a munthu, mu malo oyamba, ndikofunika kukambirana za chitukuko mwana. Monga psyche ubwana wa pachiopsezo champhamvu monga mwana chophweka kuwononga psyche, ndi kukolola pamodzi ndiye kudzakhala kovuta kwambiri. Ndipotu, monga ife tikudziwira, zonse mavuto maganizo kuyambira ali mwana. Choncho n'kofunika kuganizira zinthu zimene zingathe kusokoneza maganizo thanzi la ana.

Chifukwa cha bwino maganizo matenda amakhala nkhondo, koma osati aliyense. Mwanayo, amene anakulira malo kwathunthu nkhondo-free, akhoza kukhala zovuta kwambiri anatengera chikhalidwe m'tsogolo, osati mwana amene anakulira pamaso pa mikangano structural. Mu nthawi iyi yofunika kwambiri chifukwa mkangano kungawononge, ndiye owononga umunthu.

mikangano Destructive kuyambitsa ndi underestimation tokha monga anthu, mapangidwe maofesi osiyanasiyana, odzikayikira. A umodzi zowononga nkhondo iliyonse mwanayo apulumuke ndi kuiwala. Koma kawirikawiri iwo kuwonongedwa kwa malingaliro mwanayo, kuti mavuto moyo, kuti zochita neurotic.

Long zochita neurotic angathe kukhala nkhawa neurotic mu malingaliro mwanayo pamene chipani amene amakakamizidwa nkhondo zowononga. Nkhawa chifukwa nayenso pambuyo Zimalepheretsa thanzi maganizo a ophunzira, zanzi akanatha kukhala ndi kupoletsa kuthedwa nzeru ndi mphamvu. Ndipo nkhawa ungadziwike kotheratu ndi wapezeka kokha pamene wapadera maganizo zoona.

Taganizirani zimene zingachititse kuti sukulu nkhawa kugonjetsedwa:

• kwambiri maphunziro katundu;
• kulephera kusunga ndi maphunziro;
• kuchuluka zofuna za makolo kulephera mwanayo maphunziro;
• sanali lopinda ubwenzi ndi aphunzitsi chimodzi kapena zingapo;
• kusintha kawirikawiri mu ndodo.

Nthawi zambiri, akuluakulu nawonso ndi ovuta mwana, simukhululukira ngakhale kufooka pang'ono, motero kuchititsa mavuto aakulu kwa wake kudzidalira. Ndipo ichi ndi mphindi yowopsa kwambiri. Zonse kutsutsa popanda kulemekeza (ngakhale kuti kupambana zing'onozing'ono) Zimalepheretsa thanzi maganizo a mwana osauka izo makani, ndewu kapena M'malo mwake, kulephera mokwanira kuwunika okha, oipitsitsa amasintha bwino chitukuko.