Kodi ntchito? ntchito ndimaikonda

Kwa anthu ena, July - mwezi umodzi kugwirizana ndi osasamala, tchuthi m'chilimwe ndi zina maholide, pamene ophunzira dzulo anapulumuka ayut osati kwambiri zabwino, koma mwina kwambiri yofunika nthawi ya moyo wake. Omaliza maphunziro a ntchito - kusankha ndi ntchito, ndi kusankha chimene b udet zimadalira lonse moyo wam'tsogolo. zosangalatsa, Ndithu zovuta, choncho kuliganizira pafupi.

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Kuti bwino kudziwa mfundo zimenezi changa, chinthu choyamba muyenera adzacotsa zonse zosokoneza ndipo mwachindunji funso lenilenilo sizikhudza. Muyenera zosaoneka ndi anzake, anzawo, achibale, zovekera awo osati malangizo ndi tiganizira.
Muyenera kuiwala za chiyani yapamwamba, otchuka, yapamwamba, ndi maganizo sikungonena za ndalama, koma nokha. Inde, pang'ono wathanzi, kapena ngati mukufuna kudzikonda lachibadwa kuwawa, chifukwa nthawi zambiri ana amene zagonjetsedwa kwa akulu kuthamanga (makolo, agogo kapena anzanu achikulire), mmalo zolinga zawo zofuna za ena, anatchula nkhani ya moyo wake si wake, ndi anthu ena zosachitika maloto. Kodi n'zotheka kupeza njira yabwino kwambiri kuwononga moyo wa munthu muyaya kuposa iye kuti achite zimene iye sakonda? Nkomwe.

Kuitana ndi chinthu lapamtima: ali mzere?

Tsatirani funso lokhudza zimene changa, sibwino kulola M'MALO mfundo. Nthawi zambiri anthu kuzindikira ndi ntchito amalikonda kopita, pamene pali kusiyana kwambiri pakati pa awa mitundu iwiri anthu. Pamenepo iye anaitana - sikungokhudza "ntchito ndimaikonda", koma chinthu china umboni ndi zochepa chogwirika. Ndi, kani, ngati zoyenda vekitala wa munthu ndi malo chidwi, kapena ngati mukufuna mfundo Buku limene mukufuna moyo wonse. Choncho, cholinga, kani, nthanthi gulu kuti limafotokoza maganizo a dzikoli ndi malo munthu ali mu izo, pamene "ntchito ndimaikonda" - kumasonyeza konkire mapeto a munthu, awa ndiwo nyumba zidutswa za ndalama ndi njira umenewu.

Mwa njira, ngati pali Mwachitsanzo, kusiyana pakati pa mphunzitsi ndi kuti anabadwa kuti akhale mphunzitsi? Funso losafuna.

Kuitana - ochepa osankhidwa?

Cholinga, mulimonse, ndi chibadidwe munthu aliyense, chifukwa aliyense wa mitundu ya anthu ndi chidutswa yaikulu ya chithunzi pansi pa dzina "Moyo". otchuka ndi geniuses Only si onse anapatsidwa kuti: ena wawo "Ine" mu banja ndi okondedwa, ena amakhala, motsogozedwa ndi ludzu ankhaninkhani ungwazi, ena ndimalota za kusintha dziko. Matalente anthu osiyanasiyana, ndipo ndizo zabwino, chifukwa amachititsa munthu kuti njakata, pamodzi ndi njakata iye wakonda "ofunda chisa", si woyenera. Cholinga cha munthu amadalira nzeru kusankha munthu payekha, ndipo kuti kungapondereze kusankha ichi - mwapang'onopang'ono ufulu, kumene kuli bwino kwachikhalire wa membala aliyense wa anthu.

Choncho kaya amapha cholakwa?

"Mukulimbana ndi anthu", koma anthu pa zaka linakhalapo, izo sizinali zotheka kukhala nawo, izo mwina, ngakhale chabwino.
Kulephera kukhala okhutira alipo ndipo amafuna nkhondo yovuta kwambiri patsogolo. Cholakwika - gawo pa moyo wathu, ndi kuvala ntchito mtanda wake, chabe chifukwa sanathe kuletsa, osachepera, opusa. Timitengo ayenera kuphunzitsidwa, koma Mulimonsemo kutsogolera atasokera, chifukwa mapeto a munthu amafuna osati kayendedwe ka njira anasankhidwa komanso mphamvu yogonjetsera mavuto kuyambika. Ndipo iwo adzaoka ochepa kwambiri, ndipo mwina wosangalala mapeto padzakhala mmodzi yekha amene sangathe pochitika, koma uzigwirizana ndi chiwonongeko cha mavuto zabodza ndi kuti loto.

Kodi si kusokera?

Mukhoza kuganizira ndi kukambirana nkhani imeneyi, koma chinsinsi cha kupambana kwenikweni wosavuta: muyenera kukhala wokhoza mpumulo. Nkofunika kupeza kubwereketsa, ndi moto ofunda, imene ingakuthandizeni konzekera ndi nzeru zake. Simungathe kukwanitsa kutembenukira kwa phulusa chifukwa "kuwotcha" - zikutanthauza kukwaniritsa zina kufika poti silingakonzedwenso, pamene moyo mwadzidzidzi wotaya utoto wake, ndipo kutsogolo gulu kumachitika kokha chifukwa inertia. Kumverera wotopa amamuchititsa kudziunjikira, ndi zambiri uyikidwa penapake bins kwa moyo wa munthu, makhalidwe zambiri zowononga umunthu iwo ali. Ndi pamene utumiki amakhala zokoma, ndi temberero, anamangirira wosatha, umene sangakhale, alibe ntchito sayenera kukoka. Apa akuyamba chizolowezi, kukhumudwa, ndi, monga chotsatira, maganizo, mphwayi, kusokonezeka mantha ndi maganizo yaitali. funso ili si thupi, komanso maganizo, thanzi maganizo, choncho kunyalanyaza izi Mulimonsemo zosatheka.

Kodi kuyang'ana kuwathandiza?

Nkomwe aliyense amakayikira kuti "mwamuna ayenera munthu." Komabe, anthu ambiri amanyalanyaza nkhani ya anthu ena mu moyo wawo. Komabe, popanda yekha, aliyense wa ife kudziwa kumverera, amene poyamba anali Diogenes, ndi nyali kupita kukafuna wina. chilakolako chimenechi kenanso ludzu m'manda mphuno mwa bere la munthu kumva kutentha, chikondi, chilimbikitso, chilimbikitso kufotokoza zonse zimene ine ndikufuna kusonyeza, ndipo wosayankha zimene iyenera kukhala yomveka bwino ndiponso popanda mawu.

Aliyense wamkulu kapena munthu wopambana anali mabwenzi apamtima, achibale, makolo amene cheered mtima, mu mphindi chisoni ndi kuwatsogolera Kunjira bwino. Kodi kuyesa amalephera munthu wina osati nokha, osati wokoma kuposa kuyesa kokha chifukwa chake? Mkulu Maitanidwe anthu onse chifukwa Mulimonsemo, chinthu chimodzi - kukonda ndi kukondedwa. Izi ndi zomwe zimapangitsa moyo kukhala woyenera kuukhala, ndi zomwe mwina si mantha kufa.

Cholinga ndi njira kukwaniritsa cholingacho

Funso la ntchito zambiri limagwira modzidzimutsa, chifukwa pa njira yankho la anthu ake kukumana kwambiri zinthu zosokoneza. Kwa mtundu uwu wa zinthu monga Mwachitsanzo, kufuna kupeza kwambiri. Izi, ndithudi, palibe vuto, koma ndendende bola ngati chuma sichikwiya mapeto palokha osati mmalo mwa makhalidwe onse a anthu. Mu malo oyamba sibwino kuti malire pamene mapeto cholakwika njira iliyonse. Kuitana angakhale osangalatsa kokha pamene kuphwanya lamulo wapamwamba abwino. m'mbiri ya anthu, zinthu zimene mabuku akusonyeza kuti chimwemwe wamangidwa pa "mwazi wa chimwemwe ena Ndipotu, si. Ndipo ngati amazindikira zimenezi kwa mwamuna nthawi yomweyo ndithu lidzakudzidzimutseni izo mtsogolo, kuchititsa kwambiri kulipira ngongole yakale.

Kodi n'zotheka kuti pachabe kuitana kwake?

Koma zoipa amapangitsa ife wosasangalala. Ntchito moyo nthawi zambiri kusiyana ndi ntchito ndalama, ndiye mu umenewu uli chimodzi mwa zifukwa zimene anthu kenako kusiya ntchito wawo. N'zotheka kuti ngati mulibe kuika mfundo awiri awa pa zomenyanazo, vuto adzathetsedwa?

Munthu womangidwa kukhala wolemera ngati inu kufika malonda mumaikonda labwino, koma ngati sprayed pa mfundo yakuti iye analibe mtima, mu chiyembekezo cha mapiri a golide, kupambana chosatheka ndi zolemba. Kukhala wosangalala, ayenera kuika mtima wanu mu maitanidwe anu. Woimba Mwachitsanzo, akhoza kulemba nyimbo, kuyesera kuti zokhumba omvera ndi momwe mukhoza kupeza ndalama zambiri, koma kenako ayenera kukonzekera zimene mwina kubwera nthawi pamene sanathenso kukumana zilakolako za khamu capricious, ndi zaboma zabwino ine Amazipatula ku icho. Kodi adzakhala ndi Iye, koma chisoni nthawi imene pachabe?

The woimba woona amalenga kuchokera pansi pa mtima, kotero musati zimadalira mafashoni kuwapatsa malangizo amakhalabe kukumbukira anthu osati zaka zambiri. Apa munthu angathe ndithu kuti akwaniritsidwe tsogolo lake. Ndipotu, pamapeto, kodi ntchito, ngati si luso tsatani mtima wanu?