Kukhala wangwiro, Psychology
Maganizo osagwirizana monga chinsinsi cha kupambana
Nthawi zambiri zimachitika kuti munthu wolemekezeka kwambiri akakula sakula bwino pambali ndi maubwenzi ake, pamene katatu kusukulu ndi mvula yamkuntho imakhala yotchuka, zimapangitsa kuti anthu azidziwika bwino, nthawi zambiri potenga ulemerero, amatha kupita ku mapiri ena , Sapita mosadziwika.
Zoonadi, zimachitika m'njira ina, ndiko kuti, mogwirizana ndi kuyembekezera kwa ena, chirichonse chimachita masewera. Koma chodabwitsa chomwe chafotokozedwa pamwambapa ndi choyenera kuganizira. Palibe kukayikira kuti chifukwa cha kupambana ndi kawirikawiri kuganiza kosagwirizana kwa munthu, zomwe zimapangitsa kupeza njira yothetsera mavuto ngakhale ang'onoang'ono. Mulimonsemo, anthu omwe ali ndi khalidweli amapewa kutayika, koma amathandizanso. Iwo saopa zatsopano, samakana kuyesera, samapewa chiopsezo, komabe, samachita mwayi, koma molingana ndi ndondomeko yabwino. Kulingalira kwawo mwachibadwa kumaphatikizapo kulingalira kwakukulu, kukulolani kuti mutenge mkhalidwe wonsewo, kuwufufuza ndikupeza mfundo zina.
Kodi pali kusiyana kotani pakati pa izi ndi kulingalira kwakukulu? Mkhalidwe umaphatikizapo kuganiza ndi kuchita pa malamulo omwe akhalapo nthawi yaitali, kuyenda pa njira zale kwambiri, kuyesetsa zolinga zofanana. Vuto ndiloti zolingazi sizingatheke, koma ngati zili zofunikira, ndiye kuti zimakhala zovuta kukwaniritsa njira zowonjezera chifukwa cha mpikisano waukulu. Choncho, n'kosavuta kukhala wokhutira ndi ochepa.
Maganizo osagwirizana amathandiza kuthetsa chizoloŵezi chodziwika chomwe anthu ndi ngongole amadziwika. Zoonadi, izi sizotsutsana ndi zikhalidwe zamakhalidwe abwino (ngakhale kuti ngakhale kupatukana kosasunthika kuchokera ku zikhalidwe nthawi zambiri kumadziwika ndi chilengedwe monga nkhanza), komabe nthawi zina munthu ayenera kutsata mfundo zake. Pofunafuna njira yodabwitsa, ndikofunika kuti musayambe kutsutsana pakati pa makhalidwe ndi makhalidwe oipa, zomwe, ngakhale zilibe zachilendo. Anthu omwe alibe malingaliro akumafuna nthawi zonse mwayi, ngakhale pali njira yabwino, chifukwa zingakhale bwino!
Komabe, kuli kufunafuna njira yothetsera yolankhulana ndi chenicheni ikhoza kutayika, zikuwoneka kuti njira zonse ndi zabwino. Zotsatira zake, sizinthu zokhazokha zotsutsana , koma ndi malamulo. Komabe, kulingalira kosakhala koyenera kumathandiza anthu oterewa kuti azipita kunja, monga akunena, akuuma mumadzi, kuchititsa kutsutsidwa kwa mamiliyoni, omwe samasamala konse.
Komabe, mobwerezabwereza osati, maganizo osagwirizana amalankhulidwa pokhudzana ndi anthu olenga. Tsopano izi zimayamikiridwa kwambiri. Kutsatsa, chitukuko cha malonda, kuchuluka kwa malonda - malingaliro atsopano akufunika pano, ngati kulephera sikungapewe. Mwachiwonekere, opanga makampani aakulu ndi anthu omwe amaganiza molakwika. Ndipo iwo amapeza oyanjana awo mofanana. Diploma zofiira sizikuyamikiridwa panthawiyi, samafunsa za kafukufuku pa sukulu ndi yunivesite, iwo samasamala za umunthu wa wopempha. Wophunzira waposachedwa yemwe ali ndi diploma atagulidwa pambuyo pa zaka zingapo amakhala mtsogoleri wa zamalonda, pamene wolemba sayansi ali ndi maphunziro apamwamba atatu asanachoke pantchito sakutha . Cramming - osati njira yayikulu yopambana, ndiyo njira yowonongeka.
Anthu ambiri akudabwa ngati maganizo osagwirizana angapangidwe kapena amaperekedwa kuchokera kubadwa? Mwachidule, njira yachiwiri ndi yovomerezeka. Zimakhala zovuta kulingalira kuti opanga mabuku, olemba mabuku, olemba, ndale amapita ku maphunziro kapena mabuku otsegulidwa ndi mapuzzles omwe amapereka chitukuko chosaganizira. Ndi ambiri a iwo, makolo ndi aphunzitsi akhala akuzunzidwa, chifukwa ana otere sakufuna kuchita bwino komanso samvetsa zomwe zili. Iwo amachita mwanjira yawoyomwe, ndipo chimene chimatchedwa khalidwe losayera ndi njira ina yokwaniritsira cholinga china.
Tsono, zikutanthauza kuti anthu omwe amaganiza mwanjira yowonongeka adzawonongedwa ndi moyo wakuda, wosasangalatsa? Mwasankha. Zochita zimathandiza. Pamapeto pake, luso loganiza mwachilendo lingathandize, ngati sichikuthandizira kuthetsa mavuto azachuma, ndiye m'madera ena a moyo. Ngakhalenso malingaliro wamba wamba amatha zambiri kuposa zomwe zimayembekezeredwa. Nthawi zonse pali chinachake choti mugwire ntchito, choncho bwanji osagwiritsa ntchito izi?
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